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Style Sunday: Royal Style

2012-02-12T00:00:00.004-05:00

Kate at the National Portrait Gallery's Lucian Freud Exhibit

I think Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, is the most beautiful woman on the planet. And I adore her style choices, including this coat dress and pair of classic black pumps that she recently wore while viewing art. Flattering and sophisticated. Polished. ...just like those former Art Historians, you know... Who could be a more perfect style icon for me?

Style Sunday: Spring Style

2012-02-05T00:00:00.011-05:00

I have found the following things in some recent online browsing. As you will see, I am so ready for spring.

Levi Midrise Capri in Indigo Path at JCPenney

I would love a pair or two of this dark wash blue jean capri without cuffs. I prefer a darker wash for a more polished look. I also like that the stitching blends in with the denim, instead of the gold thread being used. I am very loyal to the Levi's brand. Two of these would replace my two pairs that are cuffed, which is simply a bit more bulk than necessary.

Outburst by Nine West

I love a ballet flat, especially with a cap toe. This shoe looks like it might cover my long toes; I'm just not a fan of toe cleavage. (There's also a pewter ballet flat with a pewter toe cap at Kenneth Cole, but that one looks like it would show the creases in between my toes.)

Mossimo Womens Crew Neck Tee in Zen Red

The search for the perfect tee is on. Perhaps this dark red one from Target? I wonder if this is more red or burgundy in person... I am so picky with cut and color. Target, H&M and Ann Taylor Loft have had both flattering and affordable ones in recent years. Based on my budget, I'll only pick up one or two this season.

I realize that these are more basic items for everyday, but ones I will likely purchase (if I still like them seeing them in person). When more spring dresses and flirty skirts come out, I will post an item with beautiful details that I will consider adding to my wardrobe. Or, you know, have to have...

I can't wait to wear these cool weather clothes. With the best clothes, comfortable temperatures for my favorite activity- travel, my birthday and flowers in bloom, spring is my favorite season.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

2012-02-02T19:35:00.000-05:00

Respect is about treating others how you want to be treated. It is considerate treatment of both yourself and anyone or anything other than you.

As a considerate individual, I'm all about respect and have been especially frustrated with a lot of disrespect lately, hence this following advice...

10 Ways to Show Respect:

1. Go to appointments.
2. Contact the person you're meeting prior to the appointment time if unable to make it at all or on time.
3. Be on time. If you are late, you are saying that your time is more important than someone else's.
4. Don't hang up on someone. Even if you're not interested, at least quickly state that you are not interested and a salutation before hanging up.
5. Don't ignore people. Even if you're not interested in, say, a salesperson's pitch, look the speaker in the eye, say "no thanks" and move on.
6. Turn off or silence your cell phone when necessary, appropriate, after asked and not the entire time you're in a small store with an attentive salesperson.
7. Take care of yourself and your things and especially things you are borrowing from someone else. Return borrowed items in a timely manner.
8. Clean up after yourself, especially when living with others.
9. Do not be excessively noisy, especially when living close to others in an apartment building.
10. Be nice. Do not be mean, out loud, on purpose.

Style Sunday: Recent Purchases for the Home

2012-01-29T11:00:00.000-05:00

I <3 HomeGoods and purchased three affordable items there on Friday night. A ribbed clear glass canister with a silver screw top will now store sugar. I will dress my dining room table for my next dinner party with the plain white 52 x 70 tablecloth I picked up. I actually didn't own a tablecloth before, only placemats. A clear blown-glass vase was my last purchase. I think it would be the perfect height and opening size for a small bouquet of flowers, so it would be very easy to arrange what's offered at the grocery store. I adore having fresh flowers in the home. I'll take a picture when it's full of flowers.

I also picked up a set of two medium-sized white jar candles from Target yesterday morning. I love white candles in a plain clear glass jar. The scent is something like Jasmine Bouquet which is just fine. These were really affordable; I love you, Target.

New White Candle from Target,

Lamp also from Target

and Quatrefoil Dish which was a Christmas gift from J

on top of one of my end tables from Target

Italian Sunday Dinner Party Preparation

2012-01-29T00:00:00.003-05:00

The Italian Sunday dinner party I'm throwing is two weeks away, on Sunday, February 12th.

In preparation, I have invited three friends, purchased a plain white tablecloth for my dining room table, and designated my last $20 grocery store gift card (that I received at Christmas) to shopping for the event.

I have also created the following menu with assistance of my Italian penpal B:

Menu

Antipasti (Appetizers)
prosciutto
soppressata
an Italian cheese (yet to be determined. Any suggestions?)
bread
olive oil (the flavorful kind for dipping)

Primo Piatto (First Course)
Penne Pasta Primavera (Penne pasta with vegetables in tomato sauce, likely zucchini and red pepper.)

Secondo Piatto (Second Course)
roasted chicken with grape tomatoes and rosemary
olive-oil roasted gold potatoes

Contorni (Vegetables)
sauteed spinach with garlic

My Penne Pasta Primavera

Two of my guests are bringing a dessert, keeping with the Italian theme. And the other will be contributing a couple bottles of wine.

I'm looking forward to it.

Style Sunday: My Style Statement

2012-01-22T22:47:00.002-05:00

I read Style Statement: Live by your own design. by Carrie McCarthy and Danielle LaPorte after Fiona of How To Be Chic wrote that she was reading it and working through its exercises here and here awhile ago.

This Style Statement is just two words describing your style. The first word captures 80% of your style, your foundation. The second term counting for 20% is your creative edge.

This book helps you figure your two-word Style Statement.

I love exploring identity and personality, so I am pleased to have another label. I am, afterall, an INFJ, the Myers-Briggs personality type that is further labeled "the author" (Please Understand Me: Character & Temperament Types by David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates) and always appreciate the perfect words/ description. And now, without further ado, my two-word style statement is...

Sophisticated Passionate

I love the word "sophisticated." I was raised to be independent-minded (even though the lesson that nonconformity is okay took awhile to reach my core) and always wanted to be an adult. When I say I want to be and look "grown up," I mean I want to look always put together, polished, even effortlessly stylish. I also appreciate that care and thought goes into sophistication. I always say I am a student, to the core. I love to learn and am a hardworking, straight A student. I am always working to perfect so many things of mine. I am very willing to put in the effort. I strive to look and have my space reflect who I truly am and what I love. I do a good job of only keeping what I love and actually use. Sophisticated is reflecting good taste, yes, but, really, quintessentially my taste. And my taste tends towards the classic. Timeless, not trendy. I like that being sophisticated is very intentional. Not simply going through the motions. I truly believe life is what you make it and I desire to have a wonderful life. I want to full appreciate this life as well. I try my best to practice this values-based living. Practically, this intentional style is reflected in the fact that I never look like I fell out of bed. Instead, that I look like I put some effort in and look like me every single day. Even though spontaneity can be great, I prefer to have a plan. I'm all about planning. In addition, I find that a sophisticated individual has a broader worldview beyond their immediate location. Different cultural experiences enrich life and has transformed my life. Since sophisticated is a deep, complex style, this cultural component is evident in my style.

Synonyms for and what Sophisticated means to me:

adult, dignified, thoughtful, knowledgable, refined, defined, meaningful, significant, symbolic, deep, intentional, polished, poised, put together, takes care of oneself, clean lines, neat, organized, decluttered, tailored, structured, knows what flatters, classic, timeless, never goes out of style, anti-trend, tasteful, elegant, little black dress, dresses up for an occasion, old fashioned, old world, modernized, quality, rich, quiet, complex, custom-made, seemingly effortless, at ease, classy, formal, traditional, modest, legacy, signature style, respectful, well mannered, worldly, cultured, cosmopolitan, cultivated, experienced, seasoned, studied, expertise, precise, planner, punctual, consistent

My personal creative edge is the lively passionate.

Synonyms for and what Passionate means to me:

feeling, interested, bold, saturated, vibrant, jewel tones, sensual, enthusiastic, exciting, lively, vivacious, happy, bright, color, happy, aesthetic, beauty, loud, hungry

I loud this pairing of words. One is all about understated study and the other about lively interest.

I hope this translates into my style-- both my wardrobe and home design. I often wear neutrals including crisp white with a pop of saturated, bold color, like in a scarf from Italy or pair of earrings. I also often wear a suit to work. My current favorite work ensemble is a lavender and white striped shirt and a classic charcoal gray pant suit. I love the lavender and charcoal color combination. I hope my passion comes through in wearing and carrying accessories in the form of my beloved quatrefoil. I'll always wear earrings I love. Since I live up the stairs from where I work, I often slip on my black or pewter ballet flats even though I know it's too cold for them right now. After 9 to 5, my winter uniform is a v-neck shirt or sweater possibly over a camisole with dark blue bootcut jeans and skinny heeled black or brown boots. My black winter single-breasted trench coat and a bright scarf top this uniform when I venture outside. I also always carry my dark red handbag which is a structured tote (by Kenneth Cole New York).

The style of each of my rooms of my apartment home is also done in neutrals with pops of color, usually deep red since my favorite color, that particular shade of dark pink-- azalea, raspberry, more red/ pink than the purplish fuschia, is more difficult to find in home items. My neutrals cannot be blah either. I love crisp white, charcoal grey, chocolate or espresso brown, black, silver, pewter. I do own alittle bit of what you would call beige, but I prefer to call it cream! I also do not particularly care for pastels, but I'm currently trying to give a couple of them a shot, considering them a neutral and only when it's a fantastic color combination with a pop color.

My Bedroom

Style Sunday: Wish List

2012-01-15T18:00:00.000-05:00

I just purchased this clutch from etsy shop ModDotTextiles and off of my Amazon Wish List:

I can hardly wait until it arrives!

The remaining items of my Amazon Wish List:

St. Christopher Charm in Sterling Silver by Rembrandt Charms

St. Christopher is the patron saint of travel and the protector of travelers.

It would be nice to add this to my charm bracelet.

I love symbols from all the art I've studied over the years.

Kota 4-Panel Screen from Pier 1 Imports

I've always wanted a carved wooden screen!

I've been wanting a metal bed for years. This one from Hillsdale Furniture is a contender.

I want the four shelf bookcase in this picture.

It's from the Avington Collection at Target, just like the majority of my furniture.

It will replace my very scratched Ikea Expedit one. It's an upgrade.

I am aware that this is a lot of furniture. I love furniture! It's such a "grown up" purchase and I've always wanted to be an independent adult. I actually sold furniture for a year after graduating college and even know good construction. Not that it's on this list, not for this home.

I'm unsure when I'll pick up something from this list again, especially since I am pretty poor at the moment and am actively saving for my birthday trip to Boston. I prefer to have a travel experience over a material possession.

Buon Appetito!

2012-01-10T18:43:00.000-05:00

This is my pasta specialty that I have prepared for myself tonight:

Penne Pasta in Tomato Basil Sauce with Sauteed Zucchini and Red Pepper

...paired with a glass of red wine certo (of course).

I plan to purchase the whole grain pasta version for this dish next time. I have eaten this variety before and it's so much healthier!

I will create a dish like this for the primo piatto (first course) of my Italian Sunday Dinner next month. I love vegetables.

Style Sunday: Warm White for Winter

2012-01-08T21:14:00.006-05:00

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from Pottery Barn

I love all the warm white here, paired with the espresso wood finish.

Also love the chandelier!

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I love to have fresh flowers in my home.

And these are beautiful.

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Especially adore the chandelier here.

white with red wine

Kiki Vase from Crate & Barrel
small clear glass vase with lines of white dots
I have this sitting on my jewelry armoire.

I love these earrings of mine!

purchased on etsy
I wear mother-of-pearl earrings often.

Formerly Available at West Elm

I have the smaller owl on my bookshelf, among a few other white accents.

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I purchased two of these from Crate & Barrel during Christmastime.

My dishes are plain white with a single line of raised dots around the edge.

cute, creative idea with pasta bows

Photo Credit to Zsa Zsa Bellagio

elegant cupcakes

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beautifully decorated cake

and I love chocolate

cappuccino in a classic white cup

It's very Italian to have it in a real cup, not a takeaway one.
I don't own a big white mug since I don't have a cappuccino maker,
but I do use tiny white cups and saucers when I brew espresso.
I also prefer my cappuccino dry-- more of a foam cap.

cup of hot chocolate

I had it today with whipped cream and chocolate drizzle.

Available in Target Stores

I'm considering purchasing this shower curtain.

Is it perfect?

My bathroom in Philadelphia had a peachy pink tile with chocolate brown tile trim,

so I bought towels to go and still use them.

A chocolate and vanilla bathroom here??

Clutch on Etsy

I still really want this clutch!

I love to carry a clutch for evening.

I wouldn't mind if we had snow this winter, as long as it isn't too much!

White falling from the sky, not sticking to the ground, would be nice.

happy planning

2012-01-06T19:54:00.006-05:00

I am such a planner!

I am collaborating with my Italian penpal on my menu for the Italian Sunday dinner I will be hostessing next month because I want it to be fairly traditional. I will be serving antipasti (appetizers), a primo piatto (or first course of pasta) and a secondo piatto (small second course of a meat and vegetable or potato). With wine of course. Once decided, I will post the menu here. Grazie to B for helping me out so far! I can hardly wait for the day!

I have also decided how I would like to celebrate my all-important birthday in April. There's nothing like being out-of-town for the occasion ...and I have settled on Boston, a place I've been dying to visit for years. I've been all around it but never to the actual city. For budget reasons, I am only visiting for two days one night, a weekend, but, nonetheless, it should be fabulous. I'm flying up with one of my favorite travel buddies, J. My friend F, who I visited in New Haven last July, is meeting us there.

I have already devoured an entire guidebook! I really want to have a cappuccino and pastry in the very Italian part of town, along Hanover and Salem Streets in the North End, perhaps on my birthday morning. The Isabella Stewart Gardner museum will be another stop. The favorite place of this well-traveled patron of the arts was Venice. In fact, she designed her museum to resemble a Venetian palazzo. And art history was my major in college; I love a good art museum.

the planner's purchase

Since F is Irish, I suggested listening to live Irish music in a pub with her. This is something we enjoyed a couple of times in college. I love live music! I hope to do some kind of tour since this'll be my first time to the city. F teased me about the Duck tours and the guidebook author actually promoted it, so maybe I'll consider it... I believe I did one in the Wisconsin Dells fifteen years ago... Anyway, J would particularly enjoy a tour too. I really want to hear what F and J want to do before I plan anymore myself! I have been researching hotels for the past couple of days. I have also requested the Saturday off that weekend from work today. The office is closed on Sundays already. I hope to start setting some stuff in stone soon.

Does anyone have a must-see or must-do or must-eat in Boston for me?

Style Sunday: Chic Clutch

2012-01-01T20:00:00.002-05:00

Clutch from Etsy Shop ModDotTextiles

I love this clutch with this tile print.

Hopefully I'll make it mine and carry it for a happy hour or a night on the town soon.

Reflections on 2011 and Resolutions for 2012

2012-01-01T15:35:00.006-05:00

2011 was a pretty fantastic year for me. ...and going into it, I didn't foresee that... I dedicated the year to working towards my goals and resolutions and I hoped that it would lead to new chapters in life in 2012. I thought this past year would be all work and little play. I didn't expect for a few fantastic things to happen already!

I knew that I was going to Italy at the end of 2010, and I will always cherish that little trip. I visited Verona, Venice, Padua and Milan for just a few days during the middle of March.

J's picture taken in Venice

When we were taking the vaporetto (water bus) back to the train station to leave, the sun finally came out and I got to see beautiful Venezia in the sunshine this year!

But I didn't know that I would manage to escape retail, move into a place of my own, finally meet my Italian penpal and finally hang out with my old college friend F.

I am happy working as a Leasing Consultant at an apartment community. Although, recently, my boss was promoted to another complex. I am sad to lose such a great boss and an excellent Property Manager, ...but she was always away saving other properties. One of them finally kept her and wouldn't give her back! In this change, I hope to have a boss that likes to stick with the property and will finally allow me to do what I was hired ten months ago to do, be Leasing Consultant, not run the property day-to-day and be the face of the community. I am truly excited for 2012 in this way.

I moved into my beautiful one bedroom with a balcony over Labor Day weekend and I can tell you that I love every single second of it. This apartment home makes me so happy. I love how it is set up and how it enables me to live my life how I want. I moved so early because the most perfect apartment in the community for me became available in September. Since I could finance it, I went ahead and signed up for an apartment at least four months earlier than planned.

My Living Room

I love to entertain here and have had two parties so far, an apartmentwarming and a holiday party. I am planning to hostess an Italian Sunday dinner the Sunday following the Superbowl (February 12th). I will try to make it as traditional as possible. This will be small since I only have a small table to seat attendees around. It should be fabulous and I'm already looking forward to it.

2011 has treated me well in so many other ways. I am very grateful. There are too many to list, so I invite you to take a look at my previous posts if you are curious! Life is what you make it and I tried to make wonderful things happen for me over the past 365 days.

I also wanted to take a moment to reflect on last year's resolutions.

Resolutions for 2011:

1. Significantly pay down my credit card debt. Even though I went from four credit cards to two, I still did not significantly decrease my debt as desired. I only cut out a lot of temptation to overspend.

~~2. Find a new job and escape retail.~~ I left my job as a Store Manager of a name brand luggage store to be a Leasing Consultant at an apartment community in my hometown. My first day was March 7, 2011.

3. Pack my lunch the night before a workday. Even though I didn't manage to accomplish this, I did move upstairs from my office. I just go up to my apartment to prepare and eat lunch, ...if I have a coworker to cover the office. And I remember packing my lunch before I moved many a time.

~~4. Only possess what I love, want and use.~~ I have truly decluttered my home including my closet and I love it!

~~5. Have a fabulous time on my little trip to Italy.~~ I had such a great time! Grazie to J for helping me out on this one!

I wish I could have paid my debt down more, but, with these resolutions, I had a successful year.

My resolutions for 2012 are:

1. To diligently work towards the life I want. A friend recently told me that he's concerned that I will run off to Italy any day now. I told him not to worry; debt anchors me in America. If I didn't have any debt, I would be living in Italy right now. I need to pay down my credit card and student loan debt so I can afford such a venture. I need to relearn Italian for that too. In addition, I need to try to break into my career field of choice, International Education, and more specifically to work in a study abroad office on a college campus. I want to try to accomplish small things almost every day that will lead me in the direction of my dreams in the future. And for fun, I hope to visit Boston, maybe for my birthday...

2. To live a more chic life. I have always wanted to be grown up and sophisticated. And after falling in love with Italy and developing more Italian values, I want a passionate life too. I actually live fairly well and with intention now. For example, I keep my apartment home very clean and uncluttered. I keep my nice things nice. I also actively plan great activites. I lead a civilized, mannered life based on respect for myself and others. Plus, I strive to look presentable always and professional at the office. Furthermore, I pride myself on taking care of myself well, and that's very important to me. I want to work even more on this however. I am full of ideas right now since I am currently reading Jennifer L. Scott's Lessons from Madame Chic: The Top 20 Things I Learned While Living in Paris (which I highly recommend!). In particular, I hope to add more routine in my life. I think so much better after having eaten an actual breakfast and hope to rise earlier each morning to have one. Another example is to continue to focus on portion control, which is a struggle for me at every meal. I know I could elaborate much more here, but I plan to report my efforts towards a more chic life on this blog. Perhaps I'll update every day for a month on this very subject like Fiona did last September in her blog how to be chic... We'll see.

3. ...which leads me to my next resolution, to blog more frequently. Always having kept some sort of diary, I adore this blog and looked forward to it for a long time before I finally created it. As a woman of my word, I like that I will feel obligated to update more, especially about my lifestyle, and that this will help me keep my resolutions. I also hope to regularly post on the subject of style on Sundays soon, as promised. I hope you readers enjoy it as much as I do.

I had fun in my New Year's celebrations. I started off the New Year right this morning by reading my Christmas present to myself, Lessons from Madame Chic, while sipping a cup of hot chocolate. Again, I love this book. I had followed the series that inspired it on the author's blog, The Daily Connoisseur. Go on over to Amazon and order it now.

Pick up the Paperback on Amazon.com!

I wish everyone a fabulous new year! I hope that it's the best yet.

To a Happy New Year!

I had a good time on my day off this past week. One highlight was when I viewed the movie Midnight in Paris. I loved it! I highly recommend it as well. Having studied Art History, I delighted in seeing so many artists portrayed. I also treated myself to a professional pedicure, my second ever. My toes and feet look so nice. I thoroughly enjoyed the experience. I realize that I'm embracing routines that help me live well, but I couldn't make this a routine based on my budget. I want to live within my means. I'll have to paint my own toe nails with only sporadic salon visits.

Eat, Drink and Be Merry Holiday Party

2011-12-18T19:36:00.003-05:00

My Eat, Drink and Be Merry Holiday Party was last night and it was fun! Five of my friends, from three different circles of mine, showed up to my small cocktail party.

Here are a few photos taken after my first guest arrived:

eat

two kinds of cheddar cheese and three kinds of crackers

and Ferrero Rocher chocolates

drink

and be merry!

Panera's Panettone on Crate & Barrel Plate in front of

Holiday M&Ms in my grandmother's glass dish

and my chocolate chip cookies on my Cheers! plates

I finally tried Panera's Panettone at my party, which I expressed my curiosity for in this post. It was delicious! I highly recommend it! I know it looks more like a cake than a loaf of bread here, but it's fancy bread; it has that texture. It fit on my themed plate perfectly!

As it was potluck, of course my guests filled up my table much more than this. You can see one contribution, the makings of mulled wine in the first photo. There was also a seafood pasta salad, a fancy Italian antipasto platter (they know me well!), a huge bottle of Maryland red wine, chips and salsa and multiple two liter bottles of Coke. Grazie you guys!

As for decoration, I put lots of white lights on my balcony, had my perfect little Christmas tree out and a few little things here and there. The whole thing was accomplished on a shoestring budget ...and with alittle help from my friends (which I sang in my head since it's a Beatles lyric).

Everyone told me that they had a great time and I am so happy to have thrown it. I am officially in the Christmas spirit now.

I hope that everyone is enjoying the holiday season.

Ramblings from Michelle's Day Off

2011-12-13T17:03:00.005-05:00

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I had a dentist appointment today, just a six month cleaning. I love my dentist and his assistant. They are so nice, and Dr. Johnson is a traveler like me, so we talked about the art of Italy, the food of Philadelphia, and the shows of New York this time around. It's nice that going to the dentist isn't such a chore. ...which makes for going in to fill a small cavity in January a bit better too. I truly believe life is all about attitude. I'm trying to be optimistic, so there you go.

I also update the two of them on my life every six months. Since the summer, I've moved into my beautiful one bedroom. This year, I started a new job in a new field and changed my living situation. That is a lot, but I feel like a change already! Don't get me wrong, I adore my apartment. I have truly cherished living here for the past three and a half months. Everything reflects me, which I love, and I often entertain in my own space. One of my life goals was to live alone again and I have enjoyed it. However, it might be time to move on, to move forward with my life. This is how goal-oriented I am! If I want to move to Italy and live there for as long as I can in the next five to ten years, all of my money now shouldn't go towards rent, but savings and to pay down debt. Right now, my work situation is just a bit unknown. I'm sure I'll update on that more later, as it develops. So, I may wait until things work out there until I make major decisions. I usually am very decisive, so it's weird that I'm not set on a change, or not to change. I can see me saying that I'm ready at the new year though, a perfect time for being motivated for something new. If I stay or go at work, I may invite my sister to live with me. Although I'm not sure if she would want to, with me being so wide open to change, thus being an unstable roommate. With this job, I'm not locked into a lease. I certainly have enough space in my spacious 681 square foot one bedroom for her. And since I could see myself living in those tiny apartments half this size that they show on House Hunters International, one of my most watched shows lately. I couldn't see us affording anything more than a one bedroom! It would be nice to live with her. Not perfect, but, like I said, I thoroughly enjoyed a pretty perfect place while I had it. I could charge her what she could afford and that much could go towards debt per month for me. As soon as I figure out what is happening at work, I may offer it to her. I could also just move to a Northeastern city and live with roommates. I don't have any attachments, other than being in student loan and credit card debt, my anchor weighing me down a bit. Of course, living in Philadelphia again would be a dream. In addition, I would love to finally break into the Internation Education field as well. Yeah... I might really be ready for a change... I know I'll figure it all out.

Anyway! After the dentist, I went out for a cup of hot chocolate. Starbucks truly does their's so well! I also hit the nearby Pier 1 Imports intent on just browsing, but I couldn't resist one of their adorable wine bottle stoppers that I had already seen in a mailing. That $8 is a splurge is yet another change over the last year! Isn't he cute? His carrot nose is stuck up in the air like a little wine snob!

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I am excited to go over to my parents' for dinner. My dad had made lasagna and my mom is serving it tonight. I've never made lasagna before and have always wanted to try it... I've been thinking of having an Italian-style Sunday afternoon dinner lately. A pasta first course and a meat and vegetable second course, with wine, as the Italians do. It can't be too big until I have more funds or advance my culinary skills though! I'd love to make that a routine, but maybe I should ask my friends at my party what they think Saturday night... and start it following football season!

I am looking forward to my small Christmas cocktail party this Saturday night! The RSVPs are often yes or at least maybe. It's shaping up to be a great time. I love to entertain... I am also hoping that I can convince my girlfriends that wanted to see the movie New Years Eve to go see it after a couple hours of partying...

Season's Greetings

2011-12-11T18:33:00.002-05:00

Happy Holidays to all!

Here's my perfect little four-foot-tall Christmas tree:

I am hostessing a Christmas party here next weekend. The theme is "Eat, Drink, and Be Merry." I love the invitations I sent via Evite.com. I am so poor, but I still really wanted to throw one, so I think I can manage a small casual potluck cocktail party. I am serving cheese and crackers, Coor's Light, red and white wine, holiday M&Ms, my own chocolate chip cookies and Panettone (which is the traditional Italian Christmas cake/bread mentioned in my previous post) at the very least. One of my friends is bringing some Coke, which really helps me out. The invitation instructs my guests to bring finger foods, Christmas cookies or the ingredients of a holiday cocktail. Any food, drink, or merriment would be fantastic. I am also limited in time since I get off from work just two hours after I've asked my guests to arrive. Luckily, I simply arrange most of my eat and drink offerings. I can whip up Betty Crocker's chocolate chip cookies in fifteen minutes flat. And I can decide what to wear beforehand. I love dressing up a bit for occasions. Even though I wish it could be a fancy feast with some sort of gift or ornament exchange, I think it's nice to throw something casual and absolutely no pressure at my guests during this stressful time of year. This holiday in Italy is about eating (and eating), yes, but more about togetherness, than something big, consumerist, and ...American. I think it'll be fun.

Panera's Panettone

Love this. I bought two of these from Crate & Barrel, perfect for my party theme.

Panettone

2011-11-24T00:00:00.008-05:00

Panera's Cranberry Walnut Panettone

Panettone is a sweet bread with pieces of fruit and other goodies in it. A google search brings up articles starting with facts like it is enjoyed at Christmas and New Year's in Italy and it is originally from Milan. It also commonly has this tall round shape with a big muffin top or dome, like an architectural cupola, how Italian, right?

Having only visited Italy in the spring, I do not believe I have ever tasted one... I've seen them in both Italian and American grocery stores, in their cardboard boxes with the picture of the confection on the front. I suppose the thing I know to compare it to is fruitcake, which everyone loves to hate. I don't think I've ever heard or read anything negative about this specialty though. I should try it.

An Italian Panettone

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Maybe I should try an imported one, but Panera's Cranberry Walnut Panettone has me intrigued. It looks so good in the store (and in the photo above)! The clear plastic packaging shows off the product. Of course, it's the Panera twist on this "old-world classic" (I"ve yet to see where they specifically mention Italy or France or any other actual country).

This holiday treat is only available at Panera for limited time. It's available now, (for Thanksgiving) from November 22nd through the 24th and then from December 9th through December 24th. I might try it in December... Maybe I could bring it as a dessert for Christmas dinner or have it around here as a special dessert when I have company and maybe a leftover bit as a breakfast... If I do, I'll review it here.

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I'd also like to send out my warm wishes for a very happy Thanksgiving! (In keeping with the food theme,) I hope it's filled with all of your favorite holiday foods!

Small Business Saturday!

2011-11-23T19:00:00.000-05:00

Small Business Saturday on Facebook

You know that I'm not a fan of Black Friday, but I am a fan of *Small Business Saturday* which is this Saturday, November 26th. It's actually the 2nd Annual one. I believe that small businesses help give a place character.

They ask for a single purchase and, unfortunately, I'm not sure that I can afford it! Maybe a couple of sheets of paper at the scrapbooking store in the next town over... I haven't been there in months! If I can't "join the movement," I at least wanted to pass the message along.

Thanksgiving Wishes and Personal Black Friday Boycott

2011-11-23T00:00:00.004-05:00

I want to wish everyone a very happy Thanksgiving. I hope you take at least a moment and think about what you're thankful for. My list is endless, filled with more who's than what's. My apartment home happens to pops into my mind first however.

I am also grateful not to be working in retail this Christmas season. This hasn't happen in ten years, a decade. I was acutely aware of how relaxed I was on November 1st, not to be going into a crazed next couple of months.

I also do not have to work long hours, in the middle of the night, on Black Friday, the famous day for shopping on the day after the American holiday of Thanksgiving. As store manager last year, I was there on and off for the 22-23 hours we were open. Malls also extend their hours for several weeks and not just on this "Black" day.

My boss B recently asked me if I was going out on Black Friday. (After thinking to myself, "With what money?") I replied, with a half laugh, that since I've worked that day for the last decade, I wouldn't want to shop that day for another decade.

Even if they paid me to take an item out of the store, I wouldn't want to enter the chaos and face crowds of people overly concerned with stuff. Plus, hunt an hour for a parking spot. Just doesn't sound like fun to me... I like shopping. I wouldn't want to have a terrible shopping experience. Sometimes the Saturday before Christmas turns out to be the busiest and most profitable shopping day of the year, so beware of that day too.

Stores opening at midnight or before (9 PM!) cut into Thanksgiving, a holiday. Stores are staffed by people. These employees deserve to thoroughly enjoy their Thanksgiving holiday (which, unfortunately, is time off in the middle and not the start of the holiday shopping season) with their loved ones, for a single day. For a midnight store opening, employees have to report earlier, on Thanksgiving night.

In addition, stores often change their sales and promotions during different hours. And then corporate offices want sales numbers reported at specific times. Employees have to deal with all that while dealing with hoards of customers/ guests. I've been there. I still feel for them.

I understand a tradition in going out shopping for some-- in order to spend time with friends and family. And that different hours of operation is different and can be fun or exciting. But, can't this quality time be spent between 10 AM and 9 PM? You can certainly shop 'til you drop during those hours. I am in favor of standard hours of operation. If there's any deviation, give people time off!

The whole Black Friday thing doesn't fall into line with my Italian values. In Italy, they still take a siesta from 1 to 4 each day. And sometimes businesses close on a certain day of the week, or don't come back after lunch on Thursday afternoons. They will take the month of August off for vacation as well! Italy basically shuts down for the month.

A sign reading:

"Closed for the Holidays. From the 8th of August to the 23rd of August. Returning Tuesday, August 24th."

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While living in Italy, I had to get used to this siesta. When the vast majority of businesses closed, I had to find something to do! Some stores, like The United Colors of Benetton in my study abroad town I remember, remained open continuously. After I got used to it, I came to like it. With traveling, I found, it's nice to arrive someplace before or after siesta, to arrange around it.

With this time off, Italians show that they value things like the meal, time well spent with loved ones, and even a nap rather than being productive, constantly working and making a buck. It definitely seems more fun in Italy.

I look forward to working my normal shift from 8:30 AM to 5 PM at my non-retail job on Friday. And sleeping until I have to get ready for work. And doing something other than shopping afterward.

Who's with me?

Poverty and Spending Habits

2011-11-22T15:32:00.002-05:00

I am really poor. I suppose I would be what you call "house poor." I usually try my best not to complain and I did not intend this blog to be my forum to rant. It's pretty frustrating to be able to just make all your bill payments and have so little left over each paycheck, but... on the other hand, I'm okay with paying my most expensive bill which is rent for my beautiful apartment. I love every single second I'm here. It is so beyond worth it. And I would not trade it to be back at my parents' house for anything. In the spirit of upcoming Thanksgiving, I am so so very grateful.

My Lovely Living Room

You know you're poor when:

- you have more nail polish in your refrigerator than actual food.*
- you're the recipient of a "care package."
- you hear a rumor that you may receive another one from the same person at Thanksgiving dinner.
- you go to the gas station and put a single gallon into your tank.
- you've been living in your apartment for months and have yet to use the building's coin-operated washer.**
- cappuccino and pastry totaling almost $6 strikes you as very expensive and as a very occasional treat.

*It's a beauty secret to store your nail lacquer in the fridge. It makes it last longer and helps so the pigments do not separate. I have five OPI colors (You're a Pisa Work, It's All Greek to Me, Florentine Fuschia, California Raspberry, and Big Apple Red) and one bottle of clear Top Coat. At $8.50 a pop, I'd like for it to last 'til the last drop! The food part excludes condiments and bottles of water.

**I use my parents' for free!

See? Pretty poor. I'm looking forward to December where I'll have three paydays instead of two. Plus, my boss at our two person office is four months along with a very at-risk pregnancy so I'll be taking over things and more hours 'til like summer. I can't wait to have savings again so I can have peace of mind. Plus alittle more food... Like any Italian, I love to eat! And to renew my driver's license with my new address and my passport (it's been almost a decade!). Those fees are expensive!

I thought I was being frugal in saving for six months prior to my trip to Italy! Frugality has really entered my thought process now! Even with that said, however, I am (still) fundamentally a spender, not a saver. (I know I am primarily of the "rewards" variety too. You know... I work hard, so I deserve it.) When I have alittle money, I think "What could I do/buy today?" When it's a lot, I do see it or a portion of it as "real" savings. I see and understand how little things add up in spending though, a la "the latte factor." I wonder if I'll ever turn into a saver with time... Nonetheless, I know these lessons like living without so much and this questioning of every single purchase will serve me well in life.

I truly believe that life is what you make it. And that bored people are boring. I haven't been out too too much (with going out being the more expensive option), but I haven't really felt deprived. I manage to have a good time. My recent vacation being an excellent example of that! Nonetheless, with money, it'll be nice to go out again... I love going out! It'll make for more interesting reading here! For now, stay with me! I still have ideas for future posts!

Weekend Activities

2011-11-14T20:49:00.000-05:00

Here's to Nights Out!

I had a first date Saturday night, and it was really fun. We went out to dinner at a very nice restaurant and then we decided to have a drink in its bar. Unbeknownst to us, it was karoke night and we arrived just in time. I didn't sing, but truly love live music and thoroughly enjoyed listening, ...even if half of it was country music (which is not my favorite). Some of the singers were especially entertaining. Oh and one guy sang "Sweet Caroline" and I thought of my college friends since it's our song. (Don't judge. LOL!) We even danced, pushing tables out of the way to create a dance floor. It was such a great crowd of fun-loving people... Hours flew by like minutes! It was great to be on a date, so great to be out and to stumble upon something great. I realize that the bigger story here is the guy, not the activities, ...and he's not the one for me.

While doing laundry at my parents on Sunday afternoon, I watched "Crazy, Stupid, Love" since they had it for 24 hours on their Fios and recommended it. And I really liked it! How come I didn't see this before? I also went back to my parents' for a delicious steak dinner later. After that, my friend M came over and we just hung out for a few hours. I love having my own apartment and being able to have people over!

This upcoming Friday, I'm starting my weekend off right by going out to dinner with my friend and old co-worker D. To one of my favorite places, a local spot serving up the best pit beef sandwiches! Our go-to restaurant closed, so maybe, hopefully, this one'll replace it. My all-time favorite sandwich and a cold beer with a guy friend, I can't wait. He calls himself my brother. This brother of mine and I usually go out to eat maybe like once a season? So it'll be good to catch up. I just can't wait to go out again! On my budget, it just hasn't been happening as much as I'd like. I love going out. It's evident here that I truly appreciate when I do, when it's not so often.

Vacation Days 3, 4, and 5

2011-11-10T19:34:00.002-05:00

My vacation's almost over as I have to be back at work tomorrow. I've had a really great time!

Here are some highlights...

Where in the World is Matt Lauer? on the Today Show started this week. I've liked Tuesday's and Thursday's destinations best so far-- Madrid, Spain and the Jungfraujoch of Switzerland (which is on top of the peak, the Jungfrau, in the Alps). I love culture... Anyway, while I was getting ready today, I started humming something to myself and then I realized it was the theme song of Where in the World is Carmen Sandiego? I was in elementary school when this children's TV game show was on during the early 90s.

I had a friend over for dinner on Tuesday. I made baked chicken breasts and smashed red skin potatoes.

Finished a really good book on Wednesday. I simply had a pretty chill day.

Today, my friend E and I strolled the historic Main Street, West Street and Maryland Avenue of nearby Annapolis, Maryland. Both of us have been looking forward to this outing because we adore Annapolis. We browsed many of the interesting shops and cute boutiques of these streets. It's difficult to pick our favorites among these fabulous stores of mainly artisanal products, but we liked the import stores best. Like the Italian ceramic and French linen shop called Plat du Jour and the Irish imports store (formally known as Avoca, I believe). We skipped all of the souvenir shops. Both of us didn't purchase all that much, but still thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. E can now check her mom off her Christmas shopping list. I only came away with a few postcards. We also had the most delicious french dips for lunch at McGarvey's near the harbor. I highly recommend a trip to this charming capital city.

After that, we decided to head over to a local shopping center called the Annapolis Harbour Center. We enjoyed decadent chocolate desserts at the Barnes and Noble cafe and then browsed the stores of the strip mall. I bought a couple of cards and a package of Christmas cards I'd been wanting for awhile at the Hallmark there. (I'm a Hallmark-aholic.)

I'm not ready for this vacation to be over! I suppose I have a few hours 'til I have to go to sleep!

Vacation Day Number 2

2011-11-07T19:54:00.004-05:00

I ended up watching five episodes of How I Met Your Mother last night. I love that show. I love the type of humor-- where they name ideas and come up with rules for each scheme. I feel like I want to quote the show in real life. I also enjoy their friendship, the way Lily seems to know everything about the group or is usually right, and Ted's commitment to finding the love of his life. For being such a fan, I really don't watch it much. In fact, I've only seen one of those five episodes before! It does come on Mondays at primetime though, so perhaps I'll catch the episode tonight...

I had a pretty good day today too, Vacation day Number 2. I enjoyed some hot chocolate and read a bit this morning at Starbucks (I've accounted for them all here, that's number 3, and I just can't afford any more for awhile!) while I had some laundry in the wash at my parents'. My mom generously bought me an artificial Christmas tree (Just $19.99 at Michael's Arts and Crafts!). She was actually disappointed at how small the four foot tree actually was on display, in person. I, on the other hand, loved the size. I was considering one of those metal ornament holders which max out at 6 to 8 ornaments. I just don't need a big tree when I currently live in a one bedroom apartment and don't want a big family living in a single family home gathering around a big tree in the future. I feel that this is more European than American of me. It came in a small box with a convenient handle so I can store and move with it easily. This one comes pre-lit with white lights. I do love Christmas trees overall and am happy to have picked this one up today. I'm all about giving and decorating. Taking it a beautiful and lit tree at Christmastime during a quiet time is always something I remember each year. I bought a star, red tree skirt and red ornaments while living in my apartment in Philadelphia. I just hope the scale of these things isn't too off! Truly believing in the "one in, one out" decluttering philsophy, with this new addition, I donated two bags of holiday decorations to the Salvation Army. I may donate more if I have way too many ornaments for such a small tree. In Philadelphia, I borrowed my family's 6 foot tree while they enjoyed a real tree that year and then decorated it on quite the budget. I was happy to have it up during my Christmas party I threw. That was fun and just what we needed at the end of a long semester.

I love the white owl ornament that I found on Kate's blog, Une Vie Chic!

I subsequently pinned to one of my Pinterest boards.

It's available at Crate & Barrel.

One of the highlights of my afternoon was reading a book on my balcony. However, I would love to invest in better patio furniture. Right now I have two white plastic chairs and a small glass top table I scored dirt cheap at Target. I was sitting in one chair with my feet on the other and wasn't uncomfortable but I could just be much more comfy lounging in something else, something that costs more than a single digit of dollars. They were with me in Philly too. To go with those new lounge chairs or loveseat arrangement, I could also have my favorite flower, dark pink azaleas planted in a big terra cotta pot... They bloom at the time of my birthday you know. I also whipped up a dozen chocolate chip cookies from the Betty Crocker mix this afternoon.

I made myself my signature dish for dinner. Penne pasta with a tomato basil sauce with sauteed vegetables. Casually, the vegetables are usually red pepper and zucchini and this was no exception. I treated myself to a bottle of cheap Chianti too. Anyway, it really turned out well. Even though I've made this dish on many ordinary and memorable occasions, it always takes me back to learning how to make it with my German roommates in our apartment in Pescara, Italy, during my study abroad experience in 2005. I still think of their instructions despite doing things my own way now.

My Specialty: Penne Pasta with Tomato Basil Sauce and Sauteed Red Pepper and Zucchini

...and the night is still young! Maybe a facial mask and pedicure over a chick flick AKA a "Michelle Movie?"

I'm thoroughly enjoying myself, but life is best shared, and the remainder of my vacation should be much more social!

Vacation Days

2011-11-06T16:01:00.000-05:00

I'm using three or four vacation days this week before they expire at year end. I have to say that with the extra hour of sleep from Daylight Savings Time ending, my vacation started off pretty well.

After an errand and browsing Home Goods while waiting for the library to open today, I hit the library for a stack of books to enjoy all vacation long and then stopped by Starbucks for their delicious, decadent hot chocolate. (I know this is mentioned two posts in a row; I'm addicted.) My afternoon was interrupted by my Carbon Monoxide detector going off, but luckily I have connections working on the property and stresslessly called the maintenance guy right over. Perhaps this is a sign that I should spend some time outside of my apartment...

J's Photo of the Fancy Hot Chocolate at Cafe Florian in Venice

You would think that lover of travel that I am, I would go away during my vacation time, but, unfortunately, with bills, I am so very poor until next paycheck, that I simply cannot afford it. On Thursday, however, I am getting out of town though, if only to Annapolis, the next town over. The city has a lovely 18th Century Main Street, full of restaurants, bars, cafes and shops. A friend and I are strolling down it that afternoon. I'm excited. If I have out-of-town friend visiting or a big event to celebrate, I often go to Annapolis. I think that's the only day of the week when rain is forecasted, oh well...

View of Main Street from the Italian Restaurant Piccola Roma

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In addition to reading and my daytrip, I have to figure out fabulous ways to spend the rest of my vacation! Without spending any money... I have already arranged for some friends to come over a couple of evenings. Maybe I can catch a How I Met Your Mother marathon on TV... (Legendary! LOL) I love that show yet rarely watch it... Not that I watch a lot of TV anyway. Or maybe I'll rent that new Ryan Reynolds/ Jason Bateman movie when it comes out on Tuesday. I love them both. The Change Up? Something like that. Has anyone seen it? Is it any good? Rentals are low cost. I would also love to walk on the bike trail in this beautiful fall weather we're having. Having gone to the grocery store last night, I have a few things to bake and I love baking and now cooking. In fact, I baked Crescents filled with chocolate chips already. I'm sure I'll think up plenty and have a fun yet relaxing vacation.

Here's to my vacation! Cin cin!

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Very Merry

2011-10-30T16:13:00.000-04:00

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I figure since we had snowflakes falling from the sky (in October) yesterday, that the time of year for hot chocolate has arrived. I had my first cup at Panera this morning. I quite enjoyed it over the latest issue of Budget Travel, which has Venice on its cover. I've been there... This year. :)

Speaking of the winter season coming up, I love this...

"Very Merry Plate" Available at Crate & Barrel

"Eat, drink and be merry" is one of my favorite holiday quotes and themes! :)

I also love fall, and I hope that everyone is having a fabulous fall weekend!

Travel Tuesday: Wandering around Philadelphia

2011-10-25T21:26:00.005-04:00

I visited my beloved city of Philadelphia yesterday with my friend J. I hit some of my favorite spots and J happily tagged along.

The LOVE Sculpture in LOVE Park in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Upon arriving, we fueled up at Au Bon Pain, conveniently located in the train station (30th Street Station). After getting off the subway in Center City and emerging next to City Hall, we walked through the tents and protest signs of the "Occupy Movement." J asked me what I thought about their ideology, but this is, honestly, the first time I've heard of it. Apparently I need to find out what's going on with this nationwide string of protests!

We headed to the shopping district along Walnut and Chestnut Streets, stopping into some of the stores. I bought my boss a cute little birthday gift at the beautiful boutique called Tselaine, which is on Walnut at 20th Street. In the neighborhood, we went back to the Italian market called Di Bruno Bros. for lunch. We dined upstairs in the cafe, which was first for me. My chicken cutlet club sandwich with Abbruzzo sauce on foccaccia was delicious.

Next, we walked down almost every aisle of the Reading Terminal Market, a huge indoor market. Obsessed with food, it's my favorite place in the city. So many temptations... Every stand has something interesting! Luckily, we went on a Monday and it wasn't absolutely crammed with people. We ate delicious ice cream from Bassett's which is one of the original stands. Recently celebrating their 150th anniversary, we sat on stools and paid some attention to a video documenting their long history. I also picked up cranberry/ pistachio and chocolate/ cherry biscotti from the Termini Bros stand. It is delicious as well. I have been looking forward to eating it with espresso for breakfast at home for awhile now. Even though they're very well done, I'm not sure if I can profess my undying love for biscotti... It's kind of like stale sweet bread. Nonetheless, it's nice to change it up. I also purchased a postcard for my penpal, making sure it had a Philadelphia postmark later.

The Reading Terminal Market

See Bassett's Ice Cream on the left.

We wandered down Market Street towards Old City, not absolutely sure what we'd find. We got to see the Liberty Bell ...though through the glass window since we deemed the lines were too long to enter the building. We stumbled across the historic Washington Square, which is a small park, its path studded with the informative plaques of a museum. Getting back to Center City, we killed some time walking down South Broad Street before hopping on the subway from there to head back to the train station. (Market and Broad are perpendicular to each other and are the major roads in town.)

We were only in Philly for less than eight hours and it felt like just enough, possibly bordering on just a bit too much as we were exhausted from walking around all day. It had been six months since my last visit, on the occasion of my birthday actually, and I was so happy to be back. I'm not over Philly and I can still barely afford travel, but it'll be nice to visit other cities. I'm ready now. :) In fact, J and I were talking about Boston, a city I've reallyreally wanted to visit for awhile now. This is farther away from home and so just wouldn't be a day trip. Maybe... I've been all around Boston but never to the city itself. Hopefully I can make it happen within the next year...

My Apartment Home

2011-10-18T16:24:00.013-04:00

My Apartment in Pictures

Benvenuto!

I hope you enjoy looking around.

My Bedroom

My bedroom in charcoal gray, white and a pop of deep red.

The boxspring is simply covered in a queen-size fitted sheet.

I love that photograph. I picked it up on South Street when I lived in Philadelphia. I put it over my kitchen sink in that apartment and have, unfortunately, splashed dirty dishwater on it. I put it in a frame right before moving into my current apartment.

I scored that throw pillow on etsy, bedbuggs.

I love the print on my duvet cover and shams, which are from West Elm.

On my nightstand. The photograph can be found on the etsy shop for the amazing trekkerjen.
All my frames in the bedroom are black.

One of my nightstands, Avington Collection, Target.
I also have the chest topped with framed photos of me and friends.

A detail of my jewelry armoire, JC Penney. These panels remind me of rose windows of a duomo.

I love this modernized classic accent table from HomeGoods.

My Living Room

That sofa is an absolute steal from Value City Furniture.
The end tables and cocktail table are again Avington Collection, Target.
The lamps are also from Target.
My Italian street art all hangs above the sofa.
The sofa is opposite a TV stand of the same collection. A old TV and several silver framed photos top it.

My throw pillows are, yet again, from Target.

My street art from Italia.

Stacks of books on my coffee table shelf.

Another stack. The top two were very thoughtful gifts.

On my cocktail table.

Detail of the knob of an end table.

My Kitchen

Cookbooks in the kitchen.

My Dining Room

I scored my dining table dirt cheap at Goodwill.

There's a haunted house currently on top for Halloween.

That's a wrinkly old poster of Venezia that once adorned my college dorm walls.

I had it custom framed and matted.

A closeup.

My wine cabinet with wine glasses hanging.

(I need help filling the twelve spaces for wine!)
I have a large collection of so many types of glasses,
which pretty much fills up my linen closet.

My Desk Area

My desk area. The desk and file cabinet are Avington Collection.

I love my framed cork board leaning against the wall,
primarily filled with postcards from friends.

And that glass lamp, was on clearance
(and sold without its shade) from Target.

That chair is from Pier 1 Imports, cheap from when a location
was going out of business.
On it is a throw pillow with a cityscape on it, from Target.

I wouldn't mind replacing that bookshelf from IKEA.

As a person only owning what I love, I own around 100 books, which I try to impose as a limit.
Two whole cubes are full of Italy travel narratives.

I also have a small white ceramic owl from West Elm on my bookshelf,
among other little things I love.

My Nina Garcia style books and a cute little lamp from Pier 1 on my EXPEDIT bookshelf.

Another shelf.

The white vase is cheap from Michael's. I love the white on the dark wood shelves.
And yeah... I'm travel-obsessed.

My very talented friend F made this for me and it hangs in my hallway.

My balcony which I love. I need to upgrade that furniture...

...and another one for good luck!

Daydream Believer

2011-10-17T22:31:00.004-04:00

J's photo of a view out a window in Verona

I am a daydreamer down to the depths of my soul.

Of course I am very happy in my new apartment. It's a dream come true, and like I've said before I don't believe that I'll take it for granted.

...but right before I moved and since, I wondered what my next step would be. At first it was breaking into my field of choice, specifically some kind of position in a study abroad department on a college campus. Lately, I've been daydreaming what it would be like to spend most of my life living in Italy. I always said I'd live there again, of course, but for an undetermined amount of time. Perhaps a stay not requiring a visa would be just fine, under three months. I'm pretty sure I've rejected the short term idea.

I need to be surrounded by beauty. That I feel to be most beautiful. Like Italy's warm-colored buildings offering artisanal products on cobblestoned streets and piazzas. Maybe I've watched one too many episodes of House Hunters International lately! I envy the TV show participants, picking up to live overseas in a small, centrally-located apartment in, say, Europe or Scandivinavia, a lauchpad/ home base for travel all over a foreign continent. Of their preferences, they also often want something typical of the area and close to public transportation. I see kindred spirits in them. I also find little wrong with such small spaces. I definitely don't want to live in a big single family home with my own car parked out front. A small apartment or something like that in a city would fit me much better. In fact, I swim in my 681 square feet here, feeling very un-American.

Even though I loved my study abroad experience and overall it was positive, living in Italy is difficult at times, namely inconvenient and inefficient when directly compared to living in the US. Everyday tasks take longer. Plus, I have difficulty in speaking a foreign language. While studying it, I'm kind of a natural in writing a foreign language, spelling the words, but, alas, I'm pretty horrible at speaking without working it out on paper first. I suppose that's the whole thing about being an expat... It's a tradeoff. You just have to be in the place where you feel most happy, not entirely at home or fully comfortable in both beloved places. I feel so Italian here, but oh so American while living for any length of time there. Lately, I can see myself being happier there... Gelato is worth it, right? What comes as a bit of a shock to me is not how long I now want to stay but how much sooner I would feel that my time to be there will come. Possibly in my 30s? ...which only begin two and a half years away!

I always thought I work in my desired field of International Education in America, get married, keep the kind of American home I've always wanted too where I'd be the perfect hostess in entertaining before running off to Italy, a couple of decades away. Achieving those dreams first. ...but maybe all of those are not so crucial?? I'm not ready to put an action plan to settle in Italy in place yet, but should consider it much sooner than anticipated. Currently, I'm anchored by my debts, both of the credit card and student loan varieties. I would have to pay these off. As a moderate minimalist, I don't have so much stuff to sell off. I would definitely need to consider either a new higher-paying job or adding part-time work. I really don't have a good excuse for not having a second job. I think it might have to be retail! ...which I really wouldn't want to start that before Christmas or this winter. People suspect that since we've had a wet summer, that we will have a wet winter. I hate mixing that with retail. The news reporters urge people to stay inside during a snowstorm but the stores have to be open and you risk your life to get there, especially with that last mall I was employed in. Ugh...

Anyway, this is all something I've been thinking about lately, too much that I felt like I needed to get out!

Another House Hunters International episode just came on! Dublin, Ireland! :)

Goals Before 30

2011-10-15T06:00:00.001-04:00

Soon after I turned 25, I created a list of 25 items to achieve before turning 30. I decided to post about this today as I am now 27 1/2 and exactly halfway through.

25 Goals and Resolutions Made in my 25th Year to Achieve Before Age 30:

~~1. return to Italy~~ I visited Italy again during March 2011. Specifically Verona, Venice, Padua and Milan.

Il Duomo, Milano.

~~2. meet my Italian penpal B~~ I am happy to report that I met her in New York City on May 23, 2011.

3. purchase a Murano glass chandelier

4. visit Amsterdam

5. see Santorini

6. visit Prague

7. visit Paris

8. visit London

9. travel to Spain

10. toast a beer in Munich

11. visit Dublin

12. see the Hagia Sophia in Istanbul

13. depart on a (significant) trip with just a handful of stuff- passport, a good book, only essentials

~~14. move out again in at least a one bedroom apartment with a balcony and be financially independent to do it~~ I moved into a one bedroom with a balcony on Labor Day Weekend 2011. I love it. Since I am a Leasing Consultant at the community, I have a discount on rent, so I can afford it, much earlier than anticipated.

15. be out of credit card debt

16. speak Italian fluently

17. throw a legendary party

18. be able to write and communicate with charm

~~19. bowl a turkey~~ I bowled a turkey one day when out with my mom and sister. (A "turkey" is three strikes in a row.)

20. be up-to-date on scrapbooking

21. become a better godmother to J

22. work in the International Education field, helping others change their lives

23. buy a metal bed

24. be a knockout in a red dress

25. marry the love of my life in a small ceremony (though I could totally wait even longer)

I know... half of them are travel-related ...but I love to travel. There are few things better than discovering a new place and personally experiencing its culture. And you'd better get used to it because I plan to be quite the world traveler in the next decades of my life. I hope to have a husband who wants the same. I plan to walk on the Great Wall of China, see the moai of Easter Island, wine and dine in Napa Valley, participate in a tea ceremony in Japan, marvel at the Moorish decoration of the Alhambra in Spain, and much more. My travel wishlist is going on four pages long single-spaced. I may post it on this blog...

Even though I created this list two and a half years ago, I still wouldn't change one thing. Although, I might add one more-- live in Philadelphia again. I'm all about places. And experiences.

In terms of my progress, geez, I'm not doing so great with this list so far! I've only accomplished 4 out of 25 items! Of course a trip across Europe would scratch many goals off my list. I'd even backpack. Maybe in celebration of my 30th birthday... Or better yet, I could study Italian at the Univeristy for Foreigners in Perugia, Italy in order to gain fluency and travel to see the cities on this list before, during and after. And then I'd have something else to add to my resume so I can score a job in International Education. See? I kinda have it all figured out. I just wonder where the thousands of dollars it would take to enroll for, say, six months and finance such a venture would come from... I'm certainly a daydreamer, but I like to think I work hard to achieve these dreams. So, we'll see. Stay posted!

blog blooming

2011-10-14T23:18:00.004-04:00

Photo by Paparutzi

I am well aware that I have not posted lately. I'm sorry. Mi dispiace. I really miss it and I truly want to regularly post again. Plus, I need to write in order to work some things out in my mind. I don't feel like I should even consider not going on just because I had a lazy blog month. It happens. Life happens. And I am confident that I can do way better. The thing is, I've been really busy lately and I've simply neglected a couple of things. I think I really build up so many tasks because I feel I have to make everything simply fabulous and absolutely perfect. In fact, it feels odd to be in my apartment alone since this very situation doesn't happen most nights of any week for the past five and a half weeks. It's nice when I do though, to catch up on my to do list and to simply enjoy my beloved apartment home. I'm still so happy with a place of my own. I also didn't have a stable internet connection until just a couple of weeks ago. Posting pictures over a "low" or "very low" connection takes forever!

I drafted a post that I scheduled for tomorrow, October 15th, a long time ago. I hope that you enjoy it and that it holds you over until I post about my dolce vita again.

I've been regularly showing off my apartment and cannot wait to share it with you guys here soon. We'll have sunshine on Sunday and I plan to take pictures of my place then. I'm off Sunday through Tuesday! I rarely have off two days in a row, let alone three! So, I will have plenty of free time to blog blog blog. Plus, no money to venture out, so it works out! No very few complaints about that; I love paying rent for my beautiful one bedroom. I don't think I'm going to take it for granted...

Before then, I'm looking forward to hostessing a *girls night in* tomorrow night! Just another day... you know. :)

Life As I Now Know It

2011-09-20T21:17:00.005-04:00

The closest thing I have to a chandelier.
This Pier 1 Imports piece of wall art adorns my dining room.

My biggest life update is that... I'm in my new apartment and truly love it. I am just so happy to be living here. I'm pretty much settled in now, and have even had that apartmentwarming party I posted about. Everyone who has seen it has thought my new place "nice" and "cute." Nice and cute it is. And hopefully sophisticated! I love that my rather defined style is showing through in this apartment home. I am aware you guys have been waiting to see and hear all about it and that these are broad statements. I will gladly elaborate oh-so-much more on my beloved one bedroom soon, in multiple posts. However, here are some previews...

My beloved framed street art from Italy above my sofa.

A close-up of a corner in my kitchen. My love of red on display.
Red is my pop color among different neutrals in my kitchen, living room and bedroom.

There are a few things I still haven't done in my apartment yet. First, I still haven't gotten internet. I've been hopping onto a nearby unsecured connection and it fails every couple of minutes. Trying to post my last two guest posts with all the author's helpful links took much longer than if I had had an established personal connection. Pictures took forever too ...and that's why there's only one. I'm looking into getting internet only, without cable. After researching signal in my area, I can only set it up when I have the funds to do so. Maybe on payday this Friday... It takes more effort and patience to draft a post with a minimal internet. So that's my primary excuse for my lack of posts lately. Mi dispiace. ("I'm sorry.") Nonetheless, I am willing to make the effort and I am still happy to share.

Second, I'm also waiting for two table lamps to top my living room end tables to be delivered. I've only seen them online and hope I like them in person! They're a classic design with some marble which is an Italian touch, so I think I just might! Once I have some more lamp light and sunlight since it will be rainy for the next few days, I will post a plethora of pictures!

I want to thank Betsy again for her guest posts, which can be found here and here. Grazie. I absolutely adore them and hope you guys enjoyed them as well. With rent to pay, unfortunately, I will not be traveling as much as usual, and therefore was thrilled to have exciting trip narratives remain in the mix. She's certainly inspired me with her California travelogue as well as her travel tips. I'd love to hit so many places on the West Coast... Like the Getty Museum in LA, San Francisco, Napa Valley, Portland, Seattle,... I actually have an old college friend (another lover of Italy! You should hear us gush over our beloved country.) and family in Oregon, both of whom would be a blast to visit. Since the last time I was there was when I was about fifteen months old, I definitely need to check it all out again!

I had an apartmentwarming party last Sunday night. I set the time after the football game but before dinnertime. I served Italian antipasti and assorted beverages. On a painted rectangular platter inspired by an Italian tradition from Home Goods, I had regular and multigrain club crackers, triscuts, brie, pecorino romano, extra sharp cheddar cheese, grape tomatoes, stuffed green olives and proscuitto. I had tortilla chips and salsa in a striped bowl set by Crate & Barrel. For even more carb's, I served breadsticks and a whole wheat baguette with butter and olive oil. I also served my sister's famous homemade meatballs, which are always a huge hit. Meatballs are part of the second course in Italy, but oh well. Va bene. ("It goes well.") As for beverages, I offered Coca-Cola, root beer, water, Coors Light, and Chianti Classico. I bought a couple of these things in a favorite spot of mine, an Italian market in Annapolis, a few towns away. The gentleman running the grocery store half of the establishment is so nice. I should try talking with him more, maybe slip in Italian words next time. I remember going the previous Monday night because wine is 25% off that day of the week.

Anyway, I had such a great time, especially with a glass of Chianti in hand. I got to hang out with several good friends. I dressed up and wore my black wrap dress (Ann Taylor) over a fancy black camisole (White House Black Market). I had a cheesy Italian dinner music CD playing in the background. Since turnout was on the low side, I have enjoyed leftovers for many of my meals since.

My cute invitation custom-printed at vistaprint.com.
(The thick pen obscures my address and phone number.)

The dining room table full of antipasti and drinks.

Today was my day off and I had a fun morning followed by a mellow afternoon. First thing, I hit the library where I browsed and checked out a biography on Audrey Hepburn written by her adoring son and a book of historical fiction concerning Venice. I leisurely flipped through the biography over a delicious cappuccino and pastry at Panera. After that, I dropped off my latest donation to the nearby Salvation Army.

I stopped in Pier 1 Imports (also conveniently nearby) to see another picture of the carved wooden screen I found online. The image in their furniture catalogue gives me a better idea of what it looks like. And I'm in trouble... It is lovely. I've always wanted one. Maybe I can spoil myself at Christmas... I have a spot for it in my living room and in my bedroom, serving as simply wall decoration in each space. It could alternate rooms.

Kota 4-Panel Screen from Pier 1 Imports

On the way back, I visited Home Goods in order to spend my apartmentwarming gift gift card. (Don't you just love Home Goods?) I bought a large bowl with an Italian countryside scene painted on it, red poppies in the foreground. Some script runs up the right side of it and there's a post office ink stamp in the upper left corner. I also purchased a cheese (or chocolate!) grater (with a red handle of course). I daydream that I will throw a pasta dinner party in the future, served in this big, beautiful bowl.

After that, I wandered around the local Blockbuster hoping to find a good deal on DVDs since I'm considering forgoing cable. Good deals were to be had as there was a 10 to $20 table and a bigger 5 for $20 fixture. But being on such a budget, it's hard for me to spend on things I don't love so I actually walked out empty-handed. I hit the Target very close to my new place for a few things I needed, not even using the gift card I was recently given. I hope to save it to apply it towards a replacement coffee table that matches the rest of my furniture. I happened to use a gift card I already had, so this wasn't a particularly expensive morning, only expensive by my frugal standards. I came back to my apartment for a delicious lunch of party leftovers. Inspired by the Audrey Hepburn book, I also ordered Roman Holiday on amazon.com. That's something I love and thus is a DVD that's worth the money. Definitely worth the cheap $6.03 cost including shipping. I think I may go through an Audrey Hepburn phase like my recent Coco Chanel one.

This afternoon, I just hung out, went online while having a movie and a half play in the background. It was relaxing, which is good because work's been crazy since Hurricane Irene over three, four weeks ago. (Since I am very much a work-to-live person and like to leave work behind at 5 pm plus don't like to complain anyway, those are the only details you'll get about that, at least in this post.) I've been invited to have dinner at a friend's, so I will continue to perfect this entry later tonight.

Guest Post Continued: Betsy's Trip to California Part 2

2011-09-13T19:05:00.000-04:00

We had a wonderful time touring all of the unique neighborhoods and charming tourist areas of San Francisco. However….it was brrr cold for being August! By that Monday, my husband and I were excited to head north to warmer weather in Sacramento.

We had the entire morning to kill before our bus departed for Sacramento (more on that in a bit). In considering what remained both in and around the city that we wanted to see and do, we kept coming back to the Muir Woods National Monument, a protected forest of redwood trees just north of San Francisco. The question then became, “How will we get there?” It was then that we realized we could take a Zip Car…

Travel Tip #5 – Check out the Zipcar car-sharing program!

Zipcar is a company that owns and operates a network of short term rental cars in most major cities across the United States. Anyone can purchase a membership and have access to a Zipcar in their city any time of day using an online reservation system. You have to pay an initial application fee and an annual subscription fee. After doing so, you receive a Zipcar membership card in the mail that doubles as your key to automatically unlock any Zipcar. Using their online reservation system, you can reserve a car for any number of hours (usually no more than 8, as there is an hourly fee you pay for access to the cars and if you use it for beyond 8 hours it is not economically beneficial). The online system tells you where the car is parked and any special instructions you need to access it.

We happen to have a Zipcar membership in Charlottesville (which is home to 6 Zipcars), so we were thrilled to be able to use it to go to Muir Woods. The particular car that we reserved was parked in a garage near our hotel, so we walked there to find it and were then on our way.

Muir Woods turned out to be a lovely way to spend the morning in San Francisco. They have several different hiking paths you can choose from, ranging from 45-minute walks to multi-hour hikes. We initially chose a 2-hour hike but inadvertently ended up on the 3-hour path…thankfully it didn’t take us that long. The views of the forest and the horizon were lovely…we could even see the ocean!

After our three-hour tour of Muir Woods, we drove the Zipcar back into the city, picked up our luggage at the hotel, and headed to our bus stop to await for the bus to Sacramento.

Tip #6 – Consider alternate means of transportation between cities besides a standard rental car.

My husband and I love taking the bus or train between cities whenever we can. I think this comes from our travels in Europe, where the train and bus system was clean, efficient, and easy to navigate. We never considered renting a car in Europe and have never done so in the US (except for the Zipcars, but that’s different).

The Amtrak bus picked us up right on time and dropped us off at the Amtrak train station in Emeryville, across the SF Bay, where we caught a train that took us on the 2-hour journey up to Sacramento. Both of us were able to relax, drink a beverage, and enjoy the scenery en route.

Our stay in Sacramento was much more laid back than San Francisco. Since we were there for 10 days visiting my brother and his fiancée, we did not wake up early and try to cram in as much sight-seeing as we could every single day. Sacramento is also a smaller city then San Francisco and simply doesn’t have as large of a selection of touristy things to do, so that made our relaxation much easier.

Highlights from Sacramento included:

- Touring the California Capitol Building, led by an enthusiastic elderly gentleman who told us the history not only of the CA government and capitol building, but also of the state of CA itself.

- The Yesterday, Today & Tomorrow K Street commerce, growth and redevelopment walking tour, operated by the Downtown Sacramento Partnership.

- Crocker Art Museum, which had three different impressionism exhibits on display.

- Touring the Jelly Belly Factory and Budweiser Brewery, both of which are located in Fairfield, CA (we used a Zipcar to get to these places too!).

- Round-about tour of Lake Tahoe with my bro and Jessica.

- Napa Valley and visiting an aunt and uncle of ours in Hidden Valley Lake, CA. We did a tasting at Chateau Montelena Winery.

- Another wine tasting at Toogood Estate Winery, located in Sonoma Valley (I think). We actually did purchase a bottle of wine here.

- Empire Mine State Historic Park, location of an old gold mine that operated until the mid-20th century. We took a Zipcar here too!

Charlie and Jessica were gracious hosts who opened up their home to us. We thoroughly enjoyed seeing them and learning about how life operates in Sacramento. By the end of our trip, we realized that most of our stereotypes about California were false, at least on the north side. :)

After our 13-day trip, we were very much ready to come home. We didn’t have any problems catching our train back to San Francisco or our flights back to VA (although the $90+ parking bill wasn’t a joy to return to).

We are looking forward to our next traveling adventure: a 5-day cruise to the Bahamas on the Carnival Fantasy!

Guest Post: Betsy's Trip to California

2011-09-11T18:27:00.002-04:00

Greetings readers!

My name is Betsy and I am a good friend (and former college roommate) of Michelle. She has invited me to write a guest entry in her lovely travel blog about my recent trip to California this past August. I am happy to oblige!

First off, although my husband and I are fairly well-traveled, specifically within the US and Europe, neither of us had ever been to California. I know I had stereotypes in my mind about typical Californians: tree-huggers, hippies, vegetarians, blondes, winos, and beach babes down in Malibu. I also had visions of plastic surgery offices on every corner, marijuana readily available through a medical dispensary, and Hollywood movie stars walking around. These are the images we get from CA from the media, right?

We started planning our trip back in March, focusing first on figuring out dates and purchasing airline tickets. Although our #1 reason for visiting CA was for the sake of visiting CA, our #2 reason was because my brother happens to live in Sacramento. He has been there for about three years and we were anxious to make a trip out to visit him from our home in Virginia before his life moved him elsewhere (he has no current plans to move...but you never know!). So we had to work with him and his fiancee to figure out dates convenient to both of us. Because my husband and I are employed in education, we needed to travel during our summer months off. My bro warned us against coming in July and August because of the “heat,” but I gently reminded him that we grew up in South Carolina, for cryin' out loud – we can handle heat!

With dates firmly picked out, our next task involved purchasing airline tickets. This is where my hubby and I frequently enter conflict: I would prefer to spend a few extra hundred dollars to depart from our home city, whereas my husband prefers price checking nearby departure cities to see if we can save money. This leads me to travel consideration #1...

Be sure you consider all expenses when selecting a departure city!

In March, when we made these arrangements, we found the best price to be leaving from Richmond, VA, about an hour and a half away from our home in Charlottesville. I can't remember how much the price difference was, but it was probably over $100; otherwise we probably wouldn't have done it. We booked a flight leaving at 6:30am, optimistic that we would just wake up early, drive to Richmond, and hop on the flight. Remember, this was in MARCH.

Four months go by and we wait with anticipation for our departure to CA. In the two weeks prior to leaving, my husband and I have a blissful visit to our hometown of Myrtle Beach, SC. We arrive back in VA relaxed, albeit cranky from the 7 hour drive.

Two days later, on the morning before our departure, I was looking up directions on Mapquest for getting to the Richmond airport. Knowing that we would want to be at the airport an hour early for check-in, I calculated that we'd have to get there at 5:30. When the directions came up and they stated that the trip was 1.5 hours, I balked. We would have to get up around 3:30am to catch this flight! After a quick consult with the hubby, I was making hotel reservations for the Best Western Richmond (using PriceLine.com with the assistance of BetterBidding.com – excellent resource!). We ended up driving down that evening and spending the night in order to make the early flight the next morning.

So the expense of the hotel, plus the cost of gas driving to Richmond and back afterwards, PLUS the cost of PARKING at the airport (another estimate we had under-shot) ended up costing us over $150 in extra expenses.

Like I said before, had I done it my way, I would have just left from Charlottesville, where we could have slept in our own bed, gotten a ride to the airport, and not used a ton of gas.

Lesson learned....unless we're saving SEVERAL hundred dollars, traveling to another city's airport is probably not financially worth it!!

We arrived in San Francisco around 11:30am Pacific time. Upon landing and finding our luggage, the next big hurdle was navigating the public transportation system, which is called BART and Muni in SF (two separate systems for one city).

Tip #2: Research the local public transportation!

Thankfully I had done this online prior to leaving on our trip. We've visited some cities where it was clearly financially beneficial to purchase a multi-day transportation pass to make the best use of our money and time. Although my husband and I are good walkers, we are also prone to laziness. After a long day of touring around, we might find ourselves too tired and lazy to go out on the town again if it involves walking. Having a multi-day, unlimited transportation pass prevents this from happening.

As it happened, the real touristy areas of SF are all within walking distance. We did not feel that purchasing a multi-day ticket for the BART or Muni systems was worth it. So we paid cash for all transportation that we did take.

The BART train took us right to the stop closest to our hotel. After checking in, we immediately headed out towards Chinatown in search of lunch.

Neither my husband nor I had ever been to a “real” Chinatown, so we were delighted to visit this neighborhood of the city. The south entrance to Chinatown is ensconced with authentic looking Chinese architectural gates, with two lions keeping guard. The signs up and down the main drag were in both English and Chinese (although the Chinese was much more dominant). Shop after shop and restaurant after restaurant lined the street, with shopkeepers sweeping the sidewalks and customers lining up to look at merchandise or study a menu.

We found what we thought to be a typical Chinese restaurant for lunch and filled up on sesame chicken, sweet and sour chicken, noodles, and won ton soup, then walked to a fortune cookie factory up the street. The factory was manned by Chinese people who looked like they could be our grandparents – old, wrinkled, and bent over, yet obviously proud of their business and the work they did. We saw the giant machine that rolled out the dough, pressed out identical circles, and folded the dough circles into the iconic fortune cookie shape. It was the humans who inserted the paper fortune. They even had chocolate fortune cookies for sale!

The rest of our day was spent walking down Market Street to Golden Gate Park, a large forested area in the middle of the city. By then it was late afternoon and jet lag was setting in, so I can't say we took advantage of everything the park had to offer. We were also beginning to feel the effects of San Francisco's cooler temperatures and blustery winds. We called it a night early, stopping by a Walgreens next to our hotel to get beer and snacks to munch on from the comfort of our bed.

The next day we awoke early, caught breakfast at a diner next to our hotel (where we shared a table with a French couple – we quickly realized that there were French tourists all over the city, based on how much French we heard from people passing us on the sidewalks and on buses), and headed up to Pier 39 to catch our ferry to Alcatraz Island. Oh wait – I meant Pier 33...a detail I quickly remembered 10 minutes before our scheduled ferry departure as we were wandering around Pier 39, looking for the Alcatraz boat dock. Thankfully we made it in time due to our quick jog down the Embarcadero (the boardwalk road along the SF Bay).

We were thoroughly impressed by the whole tour of Alcatraz, which was done via audio guide. We have done plenty of audio guide tours all over the world in the past, but Alcatraz's tour was especially fascinating. First of all, the audio guide is narrated by a former prison ward who worked in Alcatraz. He had the stereotypical rough, harsh sounding voice that you would expect from a prison ward. The audi guide also featured a soundtrack of background noises such as men grumbling, cell bars closing, locks locking, etc., making the whole experience seem especially authentic.

The second most interesting part of our Alcatraz tour was the visit to the island of a former inmate. I am ashamed to admit that I don't remember his name, nor can I find it through a Google search. However, he was answering questions and posing for pictures with guests at the end of our audio tour. He was there promoting the publishing of a DVD narrating his experience as an inmate in the 1950s after being found guilty of assisting in a bank robbery. I asked him if he had any advice for today's kids about staying out of jail and his response was “Listen to your parents!”

After returning from Alcatraz, the husband and I continued to tour the rest of the Fisherman's Wharf neighborhood of SF. It was definitely a boardwalk atmosphere, with restaurants and souvenir shops lining the street. We found an In 'n Out Burger and managed to squeeze into the line long enough to order burgers and fries for dinner (which had been on my husband's to-do list). Afterwards we walked around the Cannery and Ghirardelli Square, both of which had been home to the Del Monte plant and chocolate plant, respectively. They are both now boutique shopping centers. We also walked down Lombard Street, the “crooked-est” street in the world!

The final highlight of the day was taking a walking tour of Nobb Hill, another neighborhood of SF close to Fisherman's Wharf. Nobb Hill is home to the Coit Tower; we didn't know anything about either of them. This brings me to travel tip #3...

Seek out walking tours of your locale!

Walking tours were something we discovered in Europe, Berlin to be specific. We could have relied on the Internet or guidebooks to tell us the history of our whereabouts, but that would have been highly impersonal, not to mention cumbersome if we had to lug those 10 pound books around (I say “we” but that really means “I” since I'm the one carrying the purse!). San Francisco City Guides offered a large assortment of different walking tours we could go on instead, all of them being free. Free! Did you hear that?? It is music to our ears. Granted, they accepted tips to help keep the organization running, which we happily provided. But to get a guided walking tour by a local person who is knowledgable about the area for such a low rate is an absolute steal.

On Sunday we were planning on biking across the Golden Gate Bridge first thing in the morning; however, upon turning on the local news, we found out that the San Francisco Marathon was taking place concurrently. So instead we decided to take a second walking tour, this time of the Castro district. Had we visited the Castro district (which is historically gay) by ourselves, we might have seen a few monuments, but we wouldn't have known very much about the history or architecture of the area. Having a local guide tell us all about everything we needed to know was wonderful. Again, we can't recommend walking tours enough.

The tour wrapped up just in time for lunch, so we popped into a nearby sushi restaurant to fortify ourselves with protein before pursuing our bike ride. We opted to rest bikes from Blazing Saddles Bike Rentals & Tours, which we had seen advertised widely around the city by bikers themselves riding Blazing Saddles bikes. We also had a coupon from our hotel, leading to another tip...

#4 – Seek out coupons for attractions you want to do!

This wasn't the only time we were able to take advantage of a discount. We were also able to use a gift certificate purchased on restaurant.com for our dinner later that evening. But more about that in a bit.
We had high hopes for biking across the Golden Gate Bridge. I am not sure what I was thinking, but I know it was along the lines of the theme song scenes to Full House, where the Tanner convertible is driving across on a warm sunny day.

Sadly, we did not have the carefree experience of the Tanner family in their convertible. First of all, the weather was cloudy and misty. We could barely see the tops of the bridge through the fog. Secondly, although we had maps of the route to the bridge from the bike rental shop, it was very vague. There were not (in our opinion) enough markers along the route to assure us that we were headed in the right direction. Thirdly, the route was much more difficult than we anticipated. Luckily we are experienced bikers and in good shape to begin with; however, had we brought children with us on their own bikes, or had we been towing children behind us, as we saw many families doing, we would have been up a creek without a paddle. Although the route was primarily bike and pedestrian only, there were parts that merged with the real road. I wouldn't have felt comfortable bringing children with me on those parts.

Then there was the bridge itself. Each side of the bridge has a pedestrian/bike path, so it's not like we were riding in the same lines as the cars crossing it. However, only one of the two paths was open. By the time we got there around 2:00pm that Sunday, there were pedestrian and cycling tourists EVERWHERE. Biking across the bridge was impossible with the constant stopping and starting we had to do to avoid hitting others. That, combined with the mist of the fog in our faces and the noise of the traffic a few yards away was anxiety-provoking. Where were the Tanners???

We finally made it to the other side of the bridge, which led to more bike paths and eventually the road down into Sausalito, CA, on the other side of the SF Bay from the big city. A quaint little town with a bustling Main Street, Sausalito was abuzz with other cyclists and tourists who apparently had the same idea we did that Sunday afternoon. Our instructions from Blazing Saddles were to find the ferry in Sausalito to take back to San Francisco in lieu of biking across the bridge again (which my husband was adamant that he didn't want to do – and I couldn't blame him). However, what Blazing Saddles neglected to mention was that there would likely be a line for the ferry, which only left roughly every 45 minutes. Thankfully, a gentleman working an information booth in Sausalito pointed us in the direction of the line and advised us to get into it as soon as possible in order for us to make the 5:00 ferry back to the city. For we had dinner reservations that night – to celebrate my birthday!

Thankfully, after a 45-minute wait, we were able to board the ferry and make our way back to Blazing Saddles to rid ourselves of our bikes (which by then had become a burden – I, personally, was cursing the company for misrepresenting the 'bike across the bridge' experience and not providing the same weather conditions that the Tanners had). We rushed back to our hotel to change our clothes in order to make our dinner reservation at First Crush, a French-American tapas (small plate) restaurant close to our hotel for which I had purchased a gift certificate for on restaurant.com a few months prior when they were having a 70% off sale. The dinner was fantastic – an assortment of delicious small plates, one large plate that we shared (I think it was beef – I don't remember), followed by dessert. All with copious amounts of wine. What a great way to turn 27!

More to come...the next day we head to Sacramento!

Travel Tips

2011-08-29T22:07:00.005-04:00

J's Photo of the View of Verona

I love travel. There are few things better to me than discovering a new place or experiencing a culture different from my own. Since I often talk travel, many people excitedly tell me about a place and then let me in on the fact that they never managed to make it happen or trip plans fell through once. Why not go? In this post, I hope to motivate you to actually have a plan along with provide you with savvy ways to implement it. I hope it helps people with their next day trip or their dream trip!

Decide. I'm quick to make a decision and most people I talk to know where they want to go, so if you're in that category, great. But, if you don't know where you want to go, do some research and decide. Consider a place a couple of hours away; it doesn't have to be the trip of a lifetime every time. Once you have a decision, write it down, type it up, or tell someone. That way, it's more concrete. I do not advocate traveling solo, but I often do. I say, "When it's in between not going or going alone, go." I find that people will often drop out of the planned trip and then you won't go because you have no one to go with. This world is amazing, go on ...and make 'em insanely jealous.

My biggest obstacle to travel is funding, so most of the remainder of this post will discuss overcoming "I can't afford it." I had shared my story of budget for the sake of travel in a previous post entitled "Just Go." Here is what I said:

Before my trip to Italy, I had been pretty boring. I wasn't going on trips like the ones mentioned above [in that post] because I was saving for Italy, which was so beyond worth it! I also truly enjoy going out to dinner. Before I bought the airfare in October, I would dine in restaurants once or twice a week. The six months I was on a budget, however, I think I ate out once a month, ...that I paid for anyway. I found that I enjoyed it more because it was an occasional treat. Plus I truly splurged, I would go all out on two or three courses and a drink, spending $35. Back when I was eating out multiple times a week, I would choose the cheapest thing on the menu if I were also ordering an adult beverage and spend $20. If I only spent $20 a week for a month, that's $80 and much more expensive than my once-a-month satisfying splurge. ...and I was going out more than 4 times a month! I also didn't go out so much those six months. I would often find myself sitting at home on a Friday night, giving myself a pedicure in front of an episode of What Not To Wear. Again, worth it... Do you think I'd remember sitting in the bar at Friday's as fondly as I would my short, sweet little trip to Italy? I think not. Plus it was only five and a half months. I still had a good time over those winter months. I walk with a friend once a week and don't spend a dime doing that! I've even done girls nights on the cheap. And Miss Independent over here even let the guy pay for the date sometimes!

Going back to Italy was important to me. Who am I kidding?! I hadn't been in four years and had to have it! Talking about travel all day at my old job, talking about other people's trips, it was time for me to have an exciting international excursion of my own. And since finances were my main obstacle with a really low paying job, I made sacrifices to make it happen. I stopped going out all the time. In addition, I designed the trip itself to be budgeted. (J did immensely help me out and add to my trip by paying for so many things.) There are so many people out there who dream of places and never go. I just hope I can help someone out there with my story so they are inspired to make it happen for themselves. Trust me, it's so worth it!

I posted that in March and still want to comment on the topic again. I'm kinda appalled that you have to make Americans use their accrued vacation time, which is much lower than what employees get in other countries. Most Italians take off for the entire month of August. With vacation time, you can be paid while traveling. Vacation pay or not, make it happen, people.

As with most things in life, the little things seriously build up into something big. You need to work alittle each day toward your goal. Anything worth having takes work. For poor me, that means spending less everyday.

And also becoming savvy makes it easier. Thus, I have the following travel budget tips.

Budget your Trip. I sat down and examined what everything would cost for my last international excurison, which I highly recommend. My trip to Italy in March was originally conceived as a bigger trip to Prague, Munich, Venice and Vienna. Drawing a line between these cities made up a diamond on the map, all 8 hours apart and each city was located in another country. I always travel to Italy and even though I had to go there, I always said I would visit other countries as well. After some research, I deemed that trip too expensive. I was becoming discouraged. One day my co-worker asked me, "Why don't you just spend five days in Venice?" After I let this sink in, I saw that that was doable and realized I could go overseas afterall. I decided on four days in Italy and two travel days because it was cheaper to fly on those terms. After some research, I saw that it was cheaper to fly into Milan rather than into Venice. Plus, the connections were better. I studied the train line between the two cities and decided to stop in two stops on that very line, Padua and Verona. I highly recommend the European travel guides by Rick Steves, which truly helped me figure all this out. Speaking of proximity, you could also take a trip to somewhere close to where you live. It would be nice to spend the night, but I also love a day trip.

Travel During the Off or Shoulder Season. The off season, in most cases, is winter and the shoulder season is spring or fall. Your destination will not be nearly as crowded in its off or shoulder seasons when compared to its high season. I really wanted to be in Italy for my April 15th birthday, which is during the spring, thus shoulder season, but flights were $250 cheaper during mid-March, so I decided to go then instead. Not into extreme temperatures myself, I love traveling in fairly pleasant 50-70 degree weather. Why would you want to go during the dog days of August? Plus, Europeans leave the cities for the seashore for the month. It wouldn't be an authentic experience there.

Do your Research. As a former Art History student, I love my research. Reading up on a dreamy location is fun research to me. It is my recommendation that you do a substantial amount of research. That way, you have a ton of ideas and you don't look at your travel partner(s) while there and both of you are dumbfounded as to what to do next. You would have a list of options ...at that time. Creating possible itineraries helps because then you can include what's open or closed or happening when. These itineraries also put close friends and families at ease if you're traveling alone; they could generally know where you are on a given day and know that you've thought it out. Just a resource, I usually don't follow these on the trip, and simply do what I feel like doing at any given moment. For flights, hotels, car rentals, and more, I love kayak whose motto is "Search One and Done." It searches many travel sites for you. You may not have heard of my other love ITA Software. Please bookmark it now because you might not remember its name! It provides all the travel sites with their flight information. I love how you can see the lowest round trip fare per passenger for an entire calendar month. As a big fan of the Roaming Gnome, I like travelocity. In the past, I've set up alerts so that I'm emailed when my desired flight falls below a certain cost. I love books, both travel guides and travel narratives, too! Towards the back of the magazine Budget Travel, there are many vacation deals. These usually include a guided tour, which is especially nice when it's the first time you've visited a particular place or country. I've also read that the best time to shop for flights is Tuesday afternoon. Set each of your travel dates on less-traveled days of the week like Tuesday, Wednesday and Saturday; it's often cheaper. Plus, the airport'll be less busy.

Stretch Your Dollar. I am well aware that the dollar is weak, but there are still many countries from Argentina to Turkey where it can buy a lot of the local currency. Live like a King or Queen. The September issue of Budget Travel just named Ireland as the Number 1 European country where inflation for American tourists isn't so bad (13).

Take the Train. I adore AmTrak. I signed up for their loyalty program, GuestRewards, so I earn points with every trip and hope to eventually take a free ride. Trains are the way to go in many countries throughout the world. If you're travelling to Europe from the US, you may want to consider flying into say London and then taking a cheaper train to your destination(s). (Or fly from London using the discount airline over there Ryanair.)

Take The Bus. I've used Megabus for a couple of trips. These buses are not only a good price, but a good value. It's a pretty nice bus... You can book way in advance for fares as low as a dollar plus a 50 cent booking fee. Their drop off points tend to be city centers, which is convenient. Plus, I always see that they're adding new routes. Megabus' competition is Bolt Bus and you always have Greyhound.

Stay in Hostels. Going to Europe? Stay in hostels instead of hotels. Book on or simply research from http://www.hostelworld.com/. If you've graduated from hostels, you could also consider renting an apartment, which may not only be more economical but more local as well.

Stay with a Friend. I took that trip to New Haven, Connecticut in July to visit an old college friend. It was so great to visit her and to get away as well. I also found more of the local experience with her. I still think that three days should be the maximum in most cases though. Even if you're the most grateful guest ever, you do not want to wear out your welcome. I stayed three days and three nights in New Haven and it was perfect.

Carryon. Airlines are being ridiculous with their baggage fees. When I worked in a luggage store for 21 months, it was one of the my guests' biggest complaints. To escape those fees while flying, pack as lightly as possible and consider only packing a carryon bag. Plus, when you carry on, after you arrive, you're not waiting at baggage claim (hoping your bag isn't ripped to shreds (yeah, you just paid them to (mis)handle your luggage!)), you can start your vacation, which might be all the more important if you budgetted your trip and limited the number of days gone. And my carryon is usually only tightly packed on the way back when it's filled with souvenirs. Loosely pack going so you have the space. The golden rule of packing is to lay out all the clothing and all the money you plan to take on the bed. Then, take half the clothes and double the money. Read my plea for packing less here.

Do As the Romans Do. Tourist traps are often overpriced and expensive. Venture out from the city center for cheaper prices and a more authentic experience. Hit the restaurant or bakery which has a long line of locals outside it. You can even choose to visit a less popular town or city. Also in America, lunch is often cheaper than dinner, so eat a bigger lunch. However, this is not always the case; lunch is often the main meal in other countries. For example, in Italy, businesses close from 1 to 4 in the afternoon for this important meal.

I hope this is a more helpful list than what's out there. Please, just go. And enjoy!

...waiting...

2011-08-21T00:00:00.006-04:00

The Capitoline Venus

is currently in Washington, DC.

The Latest Countdown:

7 days until my daytrip to DC!
13 days until my Moving Day!
28 days until my apartmentwarming party!

I move in 13 days, days I'll have you know, not weeks. I am so excited! I think I packed most of my stuff my last day off on Monday. I could pack alittle more, but I should really wait until the last couple days to pack up the rest, as to not inconvenience myself. Anymore than I have already anyway... You should see my big pile of labeled cardboard boxes smack in the middle of my bedroom! In addition, I am buying things I want and/or need bit by bit. Since the couple moved out yesterday, the woman showed me the apartment; it was actually the first time I saw it. It'll be nice to move and unpack over the long Labor Day Weekend. Score.

I know that I haven't posted much this month, mi dispiace ("I am sorry"), but I am so impatiently waiting to move! To live on my own in a one bedroom apartment with a balcony. Most things simply pale in comparison.

Passionate as I am about travel, I'll soon have a good post detailing my next trip, so stay tuned. I'm looking forward to my daytrip to Washington, DC and this may be the last trip I can afford for awhile! In the works for a month now, I mentioned this excursion in this post. I will see the sculpture pictured above. And I couldn't ask for better company. (And I'm totally not just saying that because they're my most avid readers! :) )

Free Hugs in Italy

2011-08-19T18:17:00.000-04:00

Free Hugs in Italy!

I want to thank Kate from Une Vie Chic for posting this!

Blog Birthday

2011-08-16T00:00:00.010-04:00

I created this blog on this day one year ago. ...and I've been loving it.

Cin Cin!

An Italian toast that is pronounced 'chin chin!'

It all started here.

This is an excellent opportunity to talk about my blog itself, and in particular, a new direction it is taking. You see, I originally wanted to wait and start this blog after I moved into my own place when I was truly making my own choices and living my own life. That's not too far off now! I move into a beautiful one bedroom in just two and a half weeks. (I move sooner than anticipated during Labor Day Weekend.) I don't have any regrets in beginning before that milestone though. In fact, I am thrilled that this blog documented a trip to Italia, which you can read about here. I feel so incredibly fortunate to have taken in the beauty there this year. Anyway, keep reading because this blog will get even better! More as I daydreamed it to be. I plan to document more of my daily life in order to appreciate my life experiences even more! Look forward to more frequent posts, more than the ten a month that I've been averaging. In my first post, I mentioned regular feature called "Style Sunday" which I plan to continue soon after I settle into my new place. I hope to cultivate a sophisticated, classic style both in my wardrobe and home, and you'll witness that very evolution. In addition, I hope to further develop my photography skills!

I'd also like to sincerely thank my readers for staying with me the last year. Grazie. I really appreciate it. I hope you guys have enjoy it as much as I do.

Furthermore, I love being a small part of a blogging community, that I'm in on the fun. Have you checked out my blogrolls entitled Italy-Related Blogs and My Fourteen Favorite Blogs? Do. They are truly fabulous and inspiring.

More than that, I love this little journal of mine. I've kept some sort of journal most of my life. Before this, I had a livejournal for years, which basically chronicled my college years and I consistently kept diaries prior to that. My Aunt S gave me my first one when I was like in the third grade. It had a gumball machine with a white background on the cover and pink lined pages. Even though I am well aware that I have a wider audience this time around, rather than giving unsolicited advice in a straightforward manner like on so many blogs I adore, I intend to document my life, my choices and preferences, and lead by example, if you will. This blog is personal and I prefer it that way. Still, I hope you like it and feel inspired! I invite you to comment if you like a particular post because I love to read them.

I like how this thing's turning out so far. I like that italiagal is public but a bit anonymous and not too huge. On one hand, I am a private person, but on the other, I do love sharing my passions with others. Even though I am naturally optimistic and idealistic, I still make it a point to stay positive on this online format. You will not read too many rants here. Plus, my scattered college friends often email me about my blog posts, as it helps keep them up-to-date on my life. I also hope to gain like-minded friends in life, and who knows, this may possibly help.

Here's to another year! Cheers! Cin Cin!

Botched Yet Better

2011-08-07T00:16:00.002-04:00

In the last week, my plans have been turned upside down ...but then they turned out anyway.

Two of the wrongs gone right:

I planned to have a pool day on my day off Thursday and go with my mom who loves herself a beach or pool. But we wake up and it's overcast and 75 degrees out. (Yeah..., during this summer.) So during the afternoon, we go out to lunch to this place I discovered a couple of months before. There, we had the most delicious pit beef and pit ham sandwiches! Pit beef is my favorite sandwich ever. (I know! It's not even Italian...) My mom loved this local restaurant as much as I did. I preferred the lunch to having an afternoon at the pool which is just something I feel like I should do because it's summer. I'm just no beach bum.

I had plans for this very pool.

Tonight my two girlfriends from high school came over to go to the carnival. Sunny all day at work and then it consistently drizzled since 5. So since I had an ancient $50 gift card to Carrabba's Italian Grill, we decide to dine there. Their food is something else! And the wine was good. And then the bread! Ah, the olive oil mixed with those herbs... Mm. Way better than weaving through the crowds at the carnival, another summer obligation. Anyway, after that, we munched on Doritos (which takes us back to high school) in front of The Tourist. Johnny Depp was delicious as well! ;)

...and now to dreams of Johnny...

Book Review: The Gospel According to Coco Chanel

2011-08-04T21:19:00.003-04:00

I finished The Gospel According to Coco Chanel: Life Lessons from the World's Most Elegant Woman by Karen Karbo in pretty much exactly 24 hours. It's such a great read. Not as serious and therefore fabulous as Chanel herself, but very much worth the time. I would give it four out of five stars.

My Borrowed-from-the-Library Copy

and Some of My Own Pearls which is very Chanel.

It was so enjoyable for two reasons. First, because of the amazing Coco Chanel. I've always been attracted to people who are not afraid to be themselves, even if those identities are not so mainstream. Chanel was completely confident in who she was in the present. I adore such strong, independent women as she. I also admire the woman for her sense of style. Her clothing was practical and actually looked good on a woman, and became classic. She also did not change her style so much through numerous collections. She remained who she was, even when her style was out of favor. And anyway, she knew she'd always win out. In that success, she brought women into modernity. I learned that Chanel was responsible for so much more than the Little Black Dress. So many things that always look good on someone may be attributed to Chanel. This wealthy woman even promoted costume jewelry. I personally love my perfume, Chanel No. 5 Eau Premiere, which is a re-do of No. 5. What is more classic than No. 5?

Secondly, I like the author's style of writing. It read like a very casual conversation with an expert. She used modern references like "Brangelina" for example, alittle too much for my taste. Some of her foot notes are hilarious though. I suppose this style contrasts with all the biographies and other books she researched. In addition, she indulged in some girl talk about wanting to acquire a vintage Chanel piece for herself throughout the book. I liked how the book was organized by a series of life lessons such as "On Self-Invention," "On Embracing the Moment" and "On Cultivating Arch Rivals" rather than being strictly chronological description of the subject's life. It was simply fun. Such a great summer read.

Elegance to Chanel is all about luxury. Of course beautiful well-crafted artisanal goods are a part of luxury, but it's much more than that. She completely redefined the term luxury for me. Not interested in making oh-so-much money myself, I can actually have luxury, thus elegance. It's not about saving up money for nice things and services in life. It's about dressing appropriately for any situation. Chanel feminized menswear which is easier to move in, not restricting a woman to do what she needs to do in life, which was revolutionary in the 20s. It's about becoming independent by making a living oneself by being true to oneself. Most of what Chanel did was work. She never happened to marry. It's also about achieving simplicity. Chanel rebelled against the big, frilly look of the day, particularly when she started out in the 20s. She often arrived in a simple black suit.

Don't laugh if I host my apartmentwarming party in a little black dress and several long strands of pearls! I'm inspired by my latest style icon and her life.

The Capitoline Venus

2011-07-28T22:35:00.000-04:00

The Capitoline Venus

Flipping through the Amtrak magazine on the way to New Haven, I came across an advertisement for the latest exhibition at the National Gallery of Art in DC. The Capitoline Venus, a really well-preserved scultpure from antiquity, will be there from early June to early September. For more information, click here. It's here in part to celebrate the 150th anniversary of Italy's unification, which, if you remember, was March 17th when I was in Italy and wondered why the shops were closed. I haven't been to its home, the Capitoline Museum in Rome, yet.

I'd like to go see it. Plus it's an excuse to go to DC and to hang out with my Virginia friends at a midpoint between us. I've only been to DC once so far this year, for the beautiful Cherry Blossoms and a couple of museums. We plan to indulge in the touristy and do the free More Than Monuments Walking Tour by DC By Foot. Hopefully it'll be cooler outside when we want to go towards the end of the exhibition.

~for my apartment~

2011-07-27T19:36:00.001-04:00

There are 43 days until I collect the keys to my new apartment!

In my waitin', hopin' and dreamin' of my future apartment home, I have come to covet:

Raya Chip and Dip by Crate & Barrel

~for entertaining~

For chips and salsa ...to go with margaritas of course!

Vic Firth Federal Pepper Mill via Amazon

8 inches tall

~for the kitchen~

I've wanted one in Walnut but since it is unavailable, I'd consider it in Cinnabar [pictured].

As much as I adore these things, I may not buy them for myself. Even though both beauties are about $30 a pop, I would much rather be able to pay rent and afford a sofa this time around! Let alone the cheap Bed Bath & Beyond mirror to go over a chest, two Target throw pillows for my sofa and two Target end tables I plan to purchase on top! Maybe I'll receive these featured items as apartmentwarming gifts... Maybe I'll cave......

Anyway, I can hardly wait to decorate my new apartment!

Happy Thoughts for "The Happiness Project"

2011-07-24T16:45:00.001-04:00

I loved "The Happiness Project Or, Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun" by Gretchen Rubin.

The Happiness Project

I liked the author right off the bat... a woman who thinks too much, loves her research and is just very interesting. Her writing always kept my interest. I would want to have an occasional cup of coffee with her.

The book is for people who are basically happy and want to feel happier. To truly appreciate life, ordinary life. Not just go through the motions. She embarks on a year-long project to work on just that.

I learned a lot about happiness and psychology. Happiness is pretty hard work. It so often takes discipline. I admired the author's effort. She had three to five resolutions under a single theme each month January through November. December, she actually tried them all. She became happier.

Even though I do not want to start my own year-long Happiness Project, that's too ambitious, I will probably use a few of her methods. I love her "Resolutions Chart" where she keeps herself accountable on a daily basis. I may even download her's for myself. I also learned that a resolution is something you keep, a goal is something you hit. After I move into my apartment, when I have the space, I would really like to scrapbook ...like my whole life. I've started it all and I left it unfinished and truly scattered. Completing certain scrapbooks would be goals and something like 'tackling a nagging task' would be a resolution. I also want to study Italian again, that I could start before I move. If you don't use it, you lose it. In addition, I'd also like to have renewed energy to accomplish every single one of my 2011 New Year's Resolutions.

I'll have to give those resolutions some thought. I'm inspired. Go out and get the book, and I promise you will too!

Girly Getaway in New Haven Highlights

2011-07-24T08:00:00.003-04:00

I visited an old college friend who lives just outside of New Haven, Connecticut from Sunday morning to Wednesday morning. We decided to give my visit a particularly girly feel.

On Sunday, I took a very early train in order to arrive in time for the polo match. We still had some time to kill for the game though, so we ate at a small local place in her suburb where everyone seemed to know one another. My friend is currently living on a horse farm which hosted the event. This was my very first polo game and my chance to learn about it. I even stomped the divets, which I already knew about from Pretty Woman. After that, we ate at a local Tex-Mex restaurant, the spot to go. The margarita and the meal were both delicious ...and it was kinda funny that the service was truly horrible! Our reservations were lost and that was only the beginning! Luckily, we were listening to live music. And I was dressed in my cute little sundress and wedge sandals. And out with my fun friend F!

We started the next day with breakfast at a local diner. Chocolate chip pancakes for me! Next, we explored downtown New Haven, which is kinda small but very nice. At the center is a "green." Mainly on Chapel Street, we shopped for accessories. Most notable of which was my friend's really cute clutch which was actually recycled from old vinyl diner seats by a local artisan. It is truly fabulous, style with a story. We dined at Frank Pepe's for New Haven-style pizza, this is a wood fired thin crust pizza with quality ingredients. We tried the summer version of the original which was a thin crust bottom with a thick crust around the edge that was browned to different shades. It had mozzarella, basil and garlic on it with fresh tomatoes on top. We decided to try the original next time; we're thinking it has tomato sauce. When you have friends visit, you get to discover your own backyard. Anyway, it was delicious. I wish I had my own pictures of the pizza but I totally slacked, again.

This is actually an art installation in New Haven.

Parts of the walls of this walkway and the sides of a parking garage are painted orange

and when you stand in the spot I am, a diamond with four circles appears.

Famous Frank Pepe's

for New Haven-style Pizza

On Tuesday, we hit the beach, a private one where we had to know someone. It was beautiful, the beach was surrounded by quintessential New England houses. You know the ones covered with the dark brown shingles you see in the Hamptons on TV shows and in movies. We packed farmer's market goods for a dirt cheap yet delicious lunch. I flipped through F's Real Simple while hoping to get a bit more of a tan. Next, we went shopping for shoes, makeup and stuff for my new apartment later that afternoon. For dinner that evening, I tried steamed cheeseburgers which was the thing there. I wasn't very impressed with the overly juicy and thus drippy burgers. My family and I happen to be huge fans of the grill. We sat on the porch to eat. We did a lot of porch-sitting, with a cold beer to beat the heat. It was nice as we were surrounded by mountains, plus many people stopped by to chat. We enjoyed our fourth cup of ice cream over the course of the 72 hours I visited that evening. Homemade ice cream which was fantastic. I teased my friend that my trips to Italy are usually punctuated by gelato!

On the way to the train station to depart, we had breakfast at the best Panera I've ever patronized. The pastries looked wonderful when they were actually browned! My cappuccino was also very well made. The five hour train ride was very long again. And then I couldn't even go home because my parents were redoing their floors. So a friend and I went to go get pedicures. My first professional pedicure ever. I loved it. My toes look really good! I stayed the night over a friend's, kinda extending my vacation.

We did a lot but it was so great to simply hang out with this old college friend of mine. Since she graduated in May 2006, I've seen her for a couple of days at my December graduation and at two weddings of our mutual friends. ...but those events made us busy and this trip was full of truly quality time. I also saw what she's told me all about in this chapter in her life.

I hope to still have overnight trips even after I begin paying rent! I'll be very happy with my apartment though! Plus, it'll also be my chance to return the favor and hostess visiting friends! I think I invited F over al least a dozen times over the three-day visit...

I like to travel light.

2011-07-24T00:00:00.003-04:00

I love my tote bags!

I am a firm believer in packing lightly for a trip. Lugging around heavy luggage is not my idea of fun. It's so much easier to wheel and throw around a carry-on or large tote bag. I highly recommend packing less.

Like my last trip (which you can read all about in the next post scheduled soon after this one), I only carried a carry-on for a 4-day girly getaway. Even though I didn't pack too much, I still didn't feel deprived and had all the options I needed for an afternoon at the beach and dinner out in town.

I <3 Real Simple, even more for this article on their website:

"Packing Light for a Weekend Trip"

It gives good advice on clothing choices for a weekend trip to the beach, the country and the city. The recommendations are classic pieces that mix and match. Better than I do even! My last trip actually included the beach, the country and the city! And like I said, I fit it all inside a 19 inch spinner that does not expand. If I can do it, you can too.

The Countdown

2011-07-14T20:51:00.000-04:00

2 days 'til I visit my college friend in Connecticut!
56 days 'til I move into my apartment!

Attend Artscape!

2011-07-13T09:39:00.003-04:00

Artscape is an arts festival in Baltimore. It's this weekend, Friday through Sunday. It snuck up on me, even though I totally mentioned it to a friend on Sunday! Since I'll be out of town this coming Sunday (yay!), I may not go... I went last year for the first time and really enjoyed it. I just wanted to send a recommendation out there!

Happy Dance and Other Random Things

2011-07-12T22:04:00.002-04:00

My dad's birthday is today. We had a big birthday dinner for him. Happy Birthday Dad! Auguri! ("Wishes!" as they say in Italy.)

Since my pen wasn't writing on his gift certificate birthday gift, I grabbed a shipping receipt from Target I had laying on my desk, turned it over and drew circles until the ink started to flow. This was beside a diagram, a diagram of instructions for a 'happy dance,' complete with multiple numbered and labeled left and right feet and arrows. This is in case you want to "break out in a Happy Dance when you receive an order you really, really like..." I love that. And since my order was piece of furniture for my new apartment, I did! This reminds me of my former boss, M, who just so happens to be currently employed by Target. At our old luggage store, at good news, he used to call "Happy Dance!" and we would dance in place for a moment.

Someone Else's Photo of the Happy Dance Instructions

As for my countdowns, I have:

4 days until my trip to New Haven!

58 days until I get the keys to my new place!

A friend gave me his old vacuum cleaner, saving me money. Grazie!

I ordered some things for my new apartment online during the 4th of July sales and now they're arriving. I still buy little things for my apartment bit by bit. Luckily this is my second apartment and I don't need much! If you haven't noticed, I'm excited!

I haven't deemed this worthy of my wishlist yet, but I like it:

Ceramic Owls from West Elm

Aren't they cute? I love owls. ...that they are symbols of wisdom. ...that they were my graduate school's mascot. ...and that they remind me of Italy. You see, the girl that I hung out with on my first trip to Italy loved owls, so we looked all over Venice for murano glass in the shape of the animal. I hope she found the perfect piece because I only remember her buying other forms-- pieces of glass wrapped candy and a dish, maybe cherries too? I started my ~~collection~~ obsession for the glassware then too.

I finished the book The Happiness Project. I highly recommend it! And I will most likely post my thoughts about it soon!

I'll try to save my next library book, Words in a French Life, for my five hour train rides to and from New Haven!

I love Princess Catherine's style, this dress included:

Princess Catherine and Prince William Arriving in Style in Ottawa, Canada

I gave myself a pedicure one day this past week with my newest OPI nail lacquer "You're a Pisa Work."

The Countdown

2011-07-09T00:00:00.003-04:00

Clock and Calendar in Piazza San Marco a Venezia

I love countdowns. While working as a furniture salesperson, I probably kept my coworkers updated on how many months, weeks and then days it was until I departed on my 2007 trip to Italy. After I returned, I'm sure I was looking forward to other events on my busy social calendar and counted down to those as well because a coworker once jokingly asked me how days it was until 'Wednesday.' The book I'm currently reading The Happiness Project supports my belief that anticipation for an occasion makes one happier.

So, there are:

8 days until I leave for my girlfriend getaway in New Haven, Connecticut!

2 months until I get the keys for my own apartment!

Necessities for My Next Apartment

2011-07-06T22:26:00.000-04:00

I simply cannot wait to move into my own apartment! I get the keys on September 9th, which is just over two months away! I really can't wait!

I'm even excited to buy a vacuum cleaner for my place! (In fact, I've picked out this vacuum cleaner-- cheap, bagless, and red!) Although I am definitely more interested in decorative elements than cleaning supplies. I've had fun buying ~~a few~~ several things already, which I'd rather write about and post pictures of after I set up my space. So stay tuned!

On the Fourth of July, I was out to lunch and then on a spontaneous shopping spree with a friend and over our delicious pit beef sandwiches she mentioned that at my apartmentwarming party, I would receive gifts or gift cards towards those apartment wants and needs. Being so independent, it honestly never crossed my mind. Firstly, I want to throw the party because I want to entertain and that would be an excuse to do so. Secondly, I would want my closest friends to see my apartment and share my happiness. And anyway, I enjoy crossing things off a list. Or deleting them on my amazon wishlist in this case. It's something apartment-related that I can indulge in prior to the move. I wonder if I'll leave anything left on my list come September... Being on a budget, I very well might. I can see the metal bed I've desired for years remaining on there for awhile longer. If you know me personally, you're welcome to search for my list; it's under my name. You're not expected to buy me anything, as I said, it seriously didn't cross my mind before it was mentioned to me. If I do purchase everything but my bed, then if my attendees would like to give me something, they could give me something they think I might like, something that strikes them as so Michelle. I adore surprises and appreciate thoughtfulness. I truly lucked out in having some of the most thoughtful friends. Or they could give me a bottle of wine to help stock the nine spaces of my new sweet little wine cabinet!

Milano bed

It even has an Italian name!

A metal bed that's not overly swirly and girly.

I also feel very fortunate that a few family members have decided to help me pay for a sofa. With their generous donations, maybe I can afford the end tables that match my TV stand to go beside it. ...and possibly the coffee table too, although I do possess a badly constructed IKEA one that would go. Having sold furniture for nearly the entire year in 2007, I hope my former coworkers can help me out!

As a result of my improved financial situation, this apartment will reflect my personal style more than my first one. Back then, I was a poor grad student living on student loans and paychecks from a part-time retail gig and thus couldn't afford much. I didn't even have a sofa. Luckily, I bought the stuff I needed little by little for awhile before. To their credit, my parents did buy me a desk and TV stand just before I moved, from the collection I continue to purchase pieces from. I often imagine how my apartment will look fully furnished. Very Michelle.

My Future Apartment

2011-06-30T18:56:00.002-04:00

I'm moving!

To Michelle and Her Future Apartment!

The residents of my dream apartment gave notice today. So, I will collect the keys for a beautiful one bedroom with a balcony on the second floor on Friday, September 9th, and then move my stuff that following weekend. Plus I can probably afford a sofa to go in it!

Back in January when I was setting New Year's Resolutions and contemplating the year ahead, I did not think I'd be moving this calendar year! This early!

I'm so excited! I'll be happy out on my own again.

Even though I toasted this wonderful news with an icy pop this afternoon, I hope to clink glasses with a real drink in my hand soon!

dream apartment update

2011-06-28T18:02:00.000-04:00

The resident of my dream apartment came in to speak with my boss (who was elsewhere today) about breaking her lease on August 31st. I was busy so I only could speak with her for just a bit. I very briefly mentioned how I wanted to move in. Mid-September's reallyreally early. I just don't know... about my finances. I would have to think about it. All this just happened.

Italian Experiences and Recent Thoughts

2011-06-26T18:21:00.005-04:00

This morning I visited Panera to have a cappuccino (in an actual mug!) and a chocolate pastry. I thoroughly enjoyed them while reading some of the latest Budget Travel in this cafe setting. With "Intimate Italy" on the cover, I liked the feature article which focuses on the relaxing Piedmont region. I'm so happy I recently decided to renew my subscription another couple of years; it's totally worth it. The July/August issue also has an article on the Grand Tour, recommending guided European excursions, on a budget of course. I would love to have this kind of travel experience next. 'Next' being years from now though, when I am able to afford it. Some of the magazine's photography makes me stop and stare, this time it was a small image of "Picturesque Prague."

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Speaking of inspiring imagery, I caught a bit of the movie Letters to Juliet on TV today and its still shot of Piazza Erbe at sunset helped me decide to return to Verona on my last trip. I loved that piazza... My lunch at a sidewalk cafe there was the most memorable meal I had on my last trip. My pasta dish with vegetables was so well done and happens to be a favorite of mine anyway. I discovered my new favorite wine at that table, the local Valpolicella. Each week for the last two weeks, I bought a bottle of it and enjoyed a glass or two a night with dinner or simply to unwind while it lasted. I scored the Bolla brand for $9.99. Much as I would love to continue, it's a luxury I will enjoy a bit more sporadically ...but, anyway, it was the scenery, the beautiful piazza decorated over centuries, that secured the win for most memorable meal.

From a Trattoria on Piazza Erbe in Verona, Italy

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I recently wrote that my car's air conditioning was fixed by my work's maintenance guy. ...and it's now back to its old tricks. I just can't afford to fix it, especially not if I plan to move this calendar year. I'm still waiting to hear about that perfect apartment. I really want that one. I still daydream about living on my own again all the time. Overzealous in making as many bill payments as possible recently, I'm particularly poor until payday this upcoming Friday... I'm such a spender trying to save, so it's just hard. I am successfully saving a lot and an apartment will make me so so happy and will be completely worth it, it just makes for a not-so-exciting life. I don't go "out" so much anymore, which I so enjoy. I'm such a rewards spender, you know, I work hard so I deserve to treat myself. In addition to going out to eat or drink in some way, I want material possessions too. Specifically, I want the items on my Amazon wishlists that have been there awhile. One list is devoted to the decoration of my future apartment and the other is for clothes. I would love to purchase that duvet I previously posted about and a classic black wrap dress from Ann Taylor. I'm dreaming of purchasing them on payday, but we'll see... I did sign up for emails from each company, so as a result, I'll save like 10% on each one of them if I do decide. I also have my trip to Connecticut during the middle of July to save for and look forward to. I'll go out plenty then. I'll enjoy staying in much more in my own place. As you can tell, I can't wait!

The Duvet and Shams I Desire from Z Gallerie.

My Future Apartment?

2011-06-24T16:47:00.000-04:00

I love these windows...

Yesterday when I was working at my apartment community, one of my residents came in and inquired about breaking her lease due to financial difficulties. I answered her questions and took her number so that my boss could answer even more. Being in leasing, I casually asked if it was a 1 or 2 bedroom apartment home. I found out that it's a one bedroom. On the second floor. With an upgraded kitchen and bathroom. In the building I want to be in. All of those features describe exactly what I want. Perfect! I practically went weak in the knees! I so want to move there!

After my boss returned her call today, I found out that the occupants are staying until their lease ends on October 31st, and are not breaking their lease. Which is good as I couldn't afford to move before then, so this is what I wanted to happen. It'd be a stretch, but I could possibly consider it for November. ...and just really budget. ...but will this couple decide to go when their lease ends? Or improve their financial situation soon? She said that she would tell my boss if they are staying or going this week, way before the required 60-day notice date of September 1st. So, I may know about my next apartment home very soon! ...and it could possibly be the best apartment in my community in my hometown, the most perfect one for me! I am so anxious, anxious excited of course, but anxious!

So... could everyone out there who reads this thing please hope I get it? Then, maybe the universe will make it happen for me!

New Year's Resolutions Update

2011-06-20T16:10:00.005-04:00

The end of June means that the year is half over. Ever the goal-oriented one, I'm happy to report that I've made some progress on my New Year's Resolutions. At the beginning of the year, I knew that this would be my year of work, to be able to implement major life changes in 2012. Without further ado, my goals and progress:

1. Significantly pay down my credit card debt. (More specific goals and action plans are for me to know.)
This is a work in progress and I have a long way to go. Working hard to save, I am becoming more and more budget-minded everyday. As of today, I only have two credit cards, when I started the year with four. I often went without to pay off those two prior to closing them. Unfortunately, the two I plan to keep carry the larger balances, so I cannot cross this resolution off.

~~2. Find a new job and escape retail.~~
I escaped! I finally found a job as a Leasing Consultant at an apartment community the first week of March. I've been there over 90 days now. I work there to hopefully take advantage of the discount on rent early on in 2012.

3. Pack my lunch the night before a workday.
Fail. Oh well... I still have six months to work on this one.

~~4. Only possess what I love, want and use.~~
I truly have pared down and love it.

~~5. Have a fabulous time on my little trip to Italy.~~
I am so happy that I made Italy happen this year. I truly had a fabulous time.

A Crystal Chandelier! This would make a fabulous housewarming gift!

just kidding

With my debt manageable with new bills, enough money saved and an emergency fund established, I will move into a one bedroom apartment in my apartment community sometime in 2012!

I hope it will be early 2012! I tell myself January 1st to make myself feel better plus to work towards a more concrete goal. I simply cannot wait to have my own place again! This Miss Independent will be soo happy! I can hardly wait to... to decorate how I want and to entertain and to hostess out-of-town guests and to shop for my own food in a grocery store and cook how I want and for less than five people and not drive to work and walk to my beloved Target a block from property! With my own place, I will also sign up for match.com again; I've always been pretty successful with it. Even though no guy I've gone out with has thought it a problem (or voiced it anyway), I hate mentioning the fact that I live with my parents. So I'll probably also be dating next year, which is really fun. Always a daydreamer, I now think about living in an apartment all the time! What's more is that I'm even dreaming what my apartmentwarming party will be like! Italian antipasti and bottles of my new favorite red wine Valpolicella (to hopefully warm up a sooner winter day)??? (That's the local wine I enjoyed in Verona.) Or a bright festive New Year, New Home theme? Ooh or maybe Chinese New Year? It'll be the Year of the Dragon! ...if it'll be sometime during the month of January! I'm also taking volunteers to help me move! (Refer to resolution number 4 if you're having doubts!) There'll be plenty of pizza and bottles of beer for after! I hope to not have snowmaggedon this year!

My life hasn't been the most exciting ever when I'm not spending so much money, but I did have a fabulous time Friday night. A friend and I wined and dined over an Italian feast. Lots of food and lots of girl talk. It was nice to "get ready" and dress for dinner too. I wore my favorite sheer black top over a black camisole and a dark jean skirt. My friend looked great with a purple top (that I so want to borrow!) also paired with a jean skirt. Great minds think alike.

summer-ready

2011-06-12T20:52:00.000-04:00

I've been running 'round without air conditioning in my car since the end of last summer. With all the recent heat waves, it's been very hot. But yesterday, the wonderfulwonderful maintenance guy at my job fixed it! He ran the contents of two cans of stuff through the A/C system. He said it was a temporary fix that could potentially last up to a year (especially if I didn't have a more serious leak). If it lasts a month, it'll be beyond fantastic! I am so very grateful. Here's to an even better summer!

Cotton Eyelet Sundress at JCPenney

I am also more ready for the summer wardrobe-wise. I was drawn to JCPenney for their white eyelet sundresses, most priced at just $29.99. What's more perfect for summer than white eyelet? ...but they didn't have them left anywhere near my size on a busy Friday night, with both a sale and a coupon out. Luckily, I scored the cutest black and white dress for $20 there instead (senza coupon). I can hardly wait to wear it! The black embellishes this white dress, so hopefully I'll be tan soon to really rock it.

the search is on

2011-06-07T11:58:00.004-04:00

I am considering replacing my comforter. My current comforter set is only a couple years old, but, still, it's time for a change. So far, my favorite is this one from Z Gallerie:

Mimosa Bedding Collection in Charcoal

This is very close to a quatrefoil pattern. It's definitely sophisticated ...and it would go with lavender accessories well. To add to this bedding ensemble, I could simply pick up a couple lavender Euro pillows or a smaller decorative pillow in the shade. ...or perhaps pillows in a medium warm pink? Or a rich red? My white sheets and other white bedroom accents (like my white lamps and curtains) would also work. I prefer the charcoal grey and white, but this duvet is also available in aquamarine, apple green, and orange. I'm not sure if this is the one yet... If it was, I would purchase a queen duvet and two standard shams. I'm looking forward to refreshing my bedroom with this particular change.

fresh flowers, the giveaway winner, and yet another trip!

2011-06-06T17:10:00.003-04:00

This week I decided to pick up a big bouquet of flowers made of different varieties. I figured I would be a natural at arranging them in a vase because I am kinda artsy ...but I guessed wrong. I think that there are just too many colors. They're still beautiful, but I certainly think I have a way to improve and should really stick to one color of one kind of flower, plus find a shop/stand that sells more than two types of flowers like the grocery stores that I've been patronizing do. ...oh well, you live and you learn.

Mine wasn't as nice as this arrangement.

And the winner of my 100th Post Giveaway is... stellab31! Congrats! The One Hundred should go out tomorrow.

Believe it or not, I am currently planning yet another trip! I feel fortunate to be able to go on so many. I'm really looking forward to visiting an old college friend in the middle of July. She lives just outside of New Haven, Connecticut. I know there'll be polo and pizza, who knows what else!

my beautiful BlackBerry

2011-06-03T21:55:00.001-04:00

Thanks to my sister's recommendation about the nice guys at AT&T and those helpful gentlemen themselves, I just purchased my first smart phone! I got the BlackBerry Curve 3G 9300 in shiny charcoal that I said I wanted in this post. Here it is...

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Isn't it cute? I adore it already! ...I just have to figure out how to use it...

I have a new number, so if you read this and know me personally, you can email me or leave a comment requesting it. Of course, I'll be sending it out to my nearest and dearest as soon as I can.

Speaking of leaving me a comment, make sure you enter my 100th post giveaway by the 6th from my last entry found here.

100th Post!

2011-05-30T14:14:00.004-04:00

This is the 100th post on the italiagal blog!

I absolutely love it and I hope you guys do too! Grazie mille ('thank you very much' or literally 'a thousand thank yous') for reading! It helps me to picture a specific audience when I write, so I truly appreciate it.

This blog is something I wanted for a long time and it's almost perfect. You see, I wanted to wait until my next fabulous phase in life and then write about that ...after I was living in an apartment of my own again and possibly working in a Study Abroad office. I'm so happy I started italiagal earlier than planned though, at a time when I'm in transition, working hard to pay off the debts of my old life and creating savings for the new one (I had to have following a quarter-life crisis). Focusing on the positive and my passions like anything Italian, travel and style when my life is in a not-so-thrilling transition makes for a happier life. Happiness is truly about appreciating the little things and sharing with others. In addition, I also loved that I visited Italy since this blog's creation back in August and posted about my fantastic trip! So... this blog is here to stay, and stay tuned for posts about my new life (hopefully not too far away!).

This is where it all started, my first post: Benvenuto! (which means "Welcome!").

I am proud to report that my most popular post is: Travel Tuesday: Overweight and Oversized Baggage.

I am happy to announce that I am doing a giveaway on this anniversary post! One lucky reader will receive:

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a copy of
The One Hundred, A Guide to The Pieces Every Stylish Woman Must Own

by Nina Garcia!

I adore this book and find the author's writing so entertaining. This is about the creation of personal style and having basics in a stylish woman's wardrobe. I've written this post and then this one directly inspired by this style bible and then many, many other updates about cultivating my personal style. Ms. Garcia's words are always at the back of my mind when I think on the topic. I hope the winner enjoys it as much as I do.

I love that it is 100-themed. Perfect.

To enter: please leave a comment naming a piece in your wardrobe that is so very you on this post. Make sure you leave something where I can get in touch with you, to collect shipping address information later.

I will take all the names and randomly select one on Monday, June 6th, which is one week away and announce the winner the same day. I promise to mail the prize on my next weekday off on Tuesday, June 7th.

Good Luck!

And again, thank you!

Recent Quatrefoil Purchases

2011-05-29T16:23:00.001-04:00

I love quatrefoils.

They remind me of art history and Venice...

In addition to the Italy connection, I like that it's a classic motif that is both simple and bold.

Inspiration: Quatrefoils front and center in J's photo of the Ca d'Oro in Venice.

Quatrefoil Earrings from petitehermine's etsy shop.

Instead of being rounded, they actually have edges to them. I love that.

Quatrefoil Mirror from Target

(I didn't approve of my personal photography so here's the credit.)

I currently have hanging it over my jewelry armoire.

time to celebrate

2011-05-28T18:14:00.003-04:00

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I had another very successful work day today! Cheers to me!

I have off Monday!

And I'll be paid for it!

This is a first for me.
You see, in retail, you have no choice but to work extended hours on a holiday.

I'm soo glad to be out of retail!

Have a fabulous holiday weekend!

...because with Sunday and Monday off, I will too!

New York City Trip

2011-05-25T19:44:00.001-04:00

J and I went up to New York City for me to meet my Italian penpal B. We've been writing for five years and have not yet met. It was so great to meet her! She loves New York! ...and I hope she'll return to America to visit my neck of the woods!

After arriving at Penn Station via train, J and I walked to Eataly, the Italian marketplace and restaurant complex. After browsing around, we had lunch at the pasta and pizza place. We dipped our bread into very flavorful olive oil and each enjoyed a glass of Chianti Classico that had Batali's name on it. As an entree, J got this huge pizza which was three kinds of pizza in one slab:

And I got a pasta dish called Penne Napoli which was penne cooked al dente in a tomato sauce with chunks of buffalo mozzarella and shredded basil:

The is the first time that I've found meals like what you would find in Italy served in America. I was truly in awe. After that, I convinced J (yes, even after that pizza) to go get gelato. In trying to locate that counter, that's when we ran into B. The gelato was very good, but not as good as in Italy...

B and I hit the Victoria's Secret and met up with many of the Italian girls she was traveling with. I told them that all American women love VS. After that, we crossed the street to the (also very American) Macy's. They were keen on the cheap prices on designer brand clothing, which that Macy's has an abundance of. It is huge! I probably didn't even check out half of it... I suppose they've been jamming their days full with sightseeing and this was the perfect thing to do that day.

J and I had to catch our train after that. It was a short trip but, still, very very worth it to meet B. ...plus Eataly was my kind of place!

What I Love From The Book "Bonjour, Happiness!"

2011-05-24T20:45:00.003-04:00

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I loved the book Bonjour, Happiness! Secrets to Finding Your Joie de Vivre by Jamie Cat Callan. In addition to sharing her own experiences, this American woman who idolized her French grandmother interviewed many French women on the topic of what makes them happy and elaborated on their thoughts in this really good book. Once you live in or love another country, your values often shift. After living in Italy, mine certainly did! Much more Mediterranean... Same for the author, who always wanted to be more French. I think American women have a lot to learn from the French and this book, like the following...

Callan basically says that happiness is an experience, a shared moment with others that one appreciates. "It's about being present and alive in the ordinary moment" (9). This is a conscious choice to appreciate life and its simple pleasures (13). In fact, she urges her readers to enjoy everyday tasks. Everything one does is a choice and is capable to contributing to happiness. She recommends connecting with others in the everyday as well. For example, a good farmers' market is particularly perfect for this.

Especially in the ordinary, she also recommends being unique. A woman can wear a signature item for example. Callan does also touch on French style which I love, especially the lesson of making an effort to dress. In addition, the author admires older French women who fill their home with fresh flowers and original art (27). ...which I'm doing right now! Make an effort, she implores, even if it's the little touches like buying yourself fresh flowers (111). When one truly appreciates the little things, you don't either need to value size it or buy multiples. Wear or use your nice things, just take care of them too! ...but, then again, buying stuff rarely leads to happiness. A fleeting experience is so much more satisfying than a material possession you purchase and have for awhile.

Take care of yourself too. The author recommends walking and taking the stairs for exercise. To take the stairs in heels, you have to concentrate and be present or else you'll fall down the flight! I love that she goes on with:

And of course, these stairs are mighty theatrical. Just imagine your husband or lover waiting for you at the bottom of these winding, curving, ornate stairs. And there you are--descending the steps seen from below in glimpses, flashes of leg and heels as you walk down and around, mysteriously coming in and out of view, disappearing, then reappearing, until you finally emerge. By the time you reach that bottom step, I would think this man would be in a state of enchantment (48).

The author is all about making an entrance. Be conscious that you're building anticipation. The click of high heels (or my loud low-heeled ballet flats!) announce your arrival. Dress in a way that creates confidence, even down to the lingerie ...just for you. People respond to confidence; it is the key.

I'm a fairly private person, surrounded by very public American women. I like that the author recognizes this self-containment as not only a means to intrigue others with mystery, but also to remain confident in knowing that their negative business isn't all over town (51). What a good point! It's a control thing. She also explains how one should seek balance in their life. Work, but take time to rest and do the things that make you happy.

Since the French love food, she explains why it, rightfully, is a source of happiness. If happiness is an experience, then food is one of the ultimate experiences! Food completely engages you. You taste, touch, smell, see, and even hear food (87). Baking a birthday cake for someone is an experience that connects you with the ones you love. There you go, a shared experience, happiness. One can even take it to the next level when it becomes a lovely tradition.

The French live in moderation, even down to their judgments on things the author has noticed. Things do not have to be so black and white. They also eat moderately. Their bodies tell them if their weight has fluctuated, not the bathroom scale. Even if they have gained, they respect their bodies and actually work on it. It's not the end of the world, nor the end of the discussion. Their daily diet requires daily decisions to do what's right for themselves in the long run. If they strayed a bit too far, they're not too far from getting back on track. Apparently curvy Frenchwomen don't give up on their look like so many obese American women seem to. They would never! They appreciate beauty too much ...and maybe know that others do too.

So, go out and buy or borrow this book! Even though it's new, I found it at my local library this time last week. ...and then truly experience life!

fresh flowers

2011-05-22T18:06:00.000-04:00

*fresh flowers on my nightstand*

...hopefully the first of many!

...even though this vase and particular bouquet is too big for my small nightstand and its lamp; now I know! I may also try more fragrant flowers in the future.

(The book is Bonjour, Happiness: Secrets to Finding Your Joie de Vivre by Jamie Cat Callan.

I've read it once and want to skim it again! I may share my review of it later.)

(I also love my birthday gift from my Italy travel buddy J, that small blue piece of murano glass, it's a bead of water with two goldfish inside. So happy to own one now since I regretted not buying one myself in Venice.)

three terrific things

2011-05-20T20:58:00.000-04:00

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I had a very successful day at work today! Cheers to me!

My Italian penpal is arriving in America today! Welcome to her!

I am approaching my 100th post! I plan to do a fabulous 100-themed giveaway. Yay for you!

behind in the times

2011-05-19T19:20:00.003-04:00

I am looking forward to upgrading to my first smartphone sometime before August. As this thought sinks in more and more recently, I am increasingly embarassed by my little red Nokia flip phone that I've had for the past 18 months. I would love to become even more independent, break free from my family plan and have a two-year contract of my own.

BlackBerry Curve 3G

Since this has been a long time comin', I am pretty much set on a BlackBerry, despite nearly everyone's protests and encouragement to score the latest touch screen one. After some quick research (as I'm pretty decisive), I've decided on the BlackBerry Curve 3G. It has wifi, 3G internet, GPS, a nice keyboard (from the pictures at least), apps for fun travel info, and good solid reviews. After seeing the one on blackberry.com, I would love the red one! ...but I can't find it on the stores' websites. ...it seems to only be available in the UK. Maybe it's available in stores? You know me and my deep red accessories... Does anyone know when/ where I can find the red one? If not, oh well, I'll take it in charcoal gray.

I've had AT&T for years. ...and I'm completely fine with it as it hasn't caused me any problems. ...and since this recent commercial is kinda cool:

I took this from the blog It's Five O'Clock Somewhere.

But, honestly, I don't know much about service. I need help. Which one should I go with?

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Just for fun-- this is my favorite flash mob youTube video:

In Memory of Ann

2011-05-15T14:58:00.002-04:00

fotos taken at Fiesta

I just attended a memorial service for my former co-worker Ann. Her ashes were spread off the pier at her longtime beautiful waterfront residence she shared with a few roommates. The pastor encouraged those in attendance to share personal memories, as a way to heal, and a few people did. However, since I'm not big on public speaking, I thought I would share my memories here instead.

I worked with Ann at RoomStore Furniture. We were among the salespeople. She was an older member of the main clique of 'em and I really wanted her to like me. And I think she did, with one particular memory as evidence. I remember telling Ann that I liked her earrings one day, and maybe it was slow and I saw how they caught the light; I gave her a second compliment on them. With that, she promptly took them off and gave them to me. I protested because in recent memory she forgot to wear earrings one day, so off she went to the dollar store next door and bought a pair just so she didn't have to go without a day. Despite my protest, she insisted I have them. (In my minimalist efforts, I have since donated them. The right decision at the time, but also a shame now...)

She was British (imagine a British accent saying "from Yorkshire" here) and very frank. Most of the time she was a serious woman, but I also remember her laugh, a fit of giggles really. She was fiercely independent and stubbornly took risks despite what anyone else thought and had the subsequent stories ...and I admired her for it.

I only worked there for the year of 2007. That was the height of the sub-prime mortgage crisis and we were only on commission so I eventually left for a job where I actually got paid. We didn't have many customers buying furniture for houses they couldn't really afford, so our team of about a dozen salespeople spent most of many, many days talking and telling jokes. All the jokes I tell (and can't tell!) are from them.

Anyway, Ann had amazing stories. Like at age 20, much to her parents dismay and bewilderment, she ran off to America alone. Every time she returned to England, she rebeled by returning to America. She became a longtime nanny to four children. One day the father asked her to waitress a private formal dinner. Ann agreed. Imagine her surpise when the President of Mexico was one of the guests! A bit nervous, she managed to not mess up the whole meal, until the after dinner coffee when she accidentally spilled a tray full of cups of coffee all over the President! Isn't that quite the story? She also loved Victorian literature. Apparently the protagonists often go on safari. So she too went to Kenya to waitress at a hotel for awhile to be there and have a safari of her own. I would love to have stories like that, something like that anyway!

To further occupy her time at work, she read and solved crossword puzzles. I can still picture her seated at her desk in her gray jacket, glasses down her nose, head bent over a crossword puzzle within her portfolio in her lap. I remember her asking me for the artist Matisse's first name since back then I was in between art history programs. H-E-N-R-I. She would talk about her lovely garden which snaked around the house. Plus her pond that the current residents are keeping up in her honor.

Since I started in January, I heard about "Fiesta" at work for months, until it finally took place later in the summer. By that time, I so wanted to go! I think I've gone a few times since. "Fiesta" is Spanish for "party" and it's called that because Ann's roommate G is Colombian. It's a big party including lots of latinos. This truly is the party of the year! I want to throw a legendary party once in my life and so far Fiesta is the best example, the best party I've ever attended. It's at that stunningly beautiful waterfront house, in the backyard, between a boat full of wine, beer and Colombian firewater and the regulation bocce ball court. It's a cookout and fun with my hilarious co-workers. I thoroughly enjoy myself. I usually have a designated driver or someone pick me up. Since G is a nurse, she collects medical supplies and donations to benefit the impoverished children of Colombia. In fact, one year admission was a bottle of vitamins. She normally conducts a silent auction of handmade Colombian goods. The best thing being a colorful hammock.

The memorial service was on this very lawn and on the pier. A pastor stood in front of us and spoke. A few people also spoke up. It was fun to hear about Ann's early family life. Even though the temperature was only in the mid-seventies, I felt very warm in the sun in my black outfit and had actually started to black out, I unfortunately was nearly ready to faint when the people surrounding me noticed how pale I was, maybe after I dropped my program. One of the very hospitable roommates let me sit down in the house and gave me some water. I was so angry at myself, that I could not remain standing outside! Hm, oh well... I only missed a reading and a prayer, came back out the minute I stopped sweating profusely. Everyone was asking me if I was okay, which you know is sweet but simply unwanted attention. I do not handle the heat well. I'll be sure to tell my doctor at my next physical. (I have health insurance as of June 1st!) I wonder if, despite having a huge family history of high blood pressure, I suffer from it being too low... I also have to have my car's air conditioning fixed! People could potentially die from heatstroke. Anyway, I was teary throughout. It was small and intimate, so sad, and she was only 68. I remember her turning 65, retirement age, back in 2007 so that was three and a half years ago.

I'll miss you Ann! I'll try and live a life of beauty and adventure too, even if I'm stubborn in the process!

Michelle's 27 Things I Know For Sure

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Grazie to Kristi at La Bella Figura whose most recent blog recommendation led me to The Simply Luxurious Life and more specifically to the author Shannon's post entitled "26 Things I Know For Sure." I credit them both for the inspiration to create my own list. I love her list, and wholeheartedly agree with every single item! In fact, I should take Shannon's advice and bring fresh flowers into my home. Since I have different life experiences, here's my personal list. I chose to have a total of 27 points because I am newly 27 years old, love marking my birthday, and figure I could give one life lesson for each year I've been around.

fresh flowers. love.

Michelle's 27 Things I Know For Sure:

1. Do not accrue credit card debt.

2. Travel.

Piazza Erbe in Verona, Italy

I enjoyed this piazza this past March.

3. Be open to learn and improve yourself. Everyday.

4. Celebrate birthdays. In a personalized way.

This year's birthday dinner location, Parc, a French restaurant in Philadelphia.

5. Do not follow trends, instead cultivate your own personal style. Not only on your person but also in your home.

My birthday shoes (...that arrived after my birthday festivities.)

I currently love this deep red color,

especially as a pop of saturated color to a neutral outfit of classic pieces.

6. Know what styles look good on your body.

7. Have goals and the gumption to work towards them.

8. Be courageous and confident enough to say what you want or who you are aloud or to an audience. ...and be it. Confidence is key. I am attracted to people who are very much themselves.

9. Indulge every once in awhile. In whatever strikes your fancy, but do it sporadically. Trust me you appreciate it more when it's not a regular habit.

drinking red wine, going out with friends, ...

10. Do a fantastic job, even if no one else is or it goes unappreciated. Do it for self-satisfaction. And not just at your workplace!

11. Be nice. (Thanks Mom)

12. Purchase items of the highest quality you can afford.

13. Give to charity, even if it's simply unused clutter or just ten bucks.

14. Nurture your close, long-term friendships.

15. Eat good food.

16. Get out of any relationship or friendship you need to or that does not have a future.

17. Declutter and then treat the items you love and use respectfully.

18. Attend college. I highly recommend going away to a four-year institution and graduating, but at least attend a few classes on a physical campus!

19. Love yourself as much as possible.

20. Dress up for dinner out, or happy hour, or a holiday dinner with family, or a date, or any special occasion!

my favorite evening clutch

21. Always bring something to a party.

22. Always apply makeup before leaving the house. Put your best foot forward. Fare la bella figura (literally "to make a good figure" in Italian).

23. Celebrate the little things.

hot chocolate in a cute cup on a winter day

24. Spontaneously do something sweet for someone.

25. Take care of your health.

26. Be passionate. Lead a passionate life.

be passionate

27. Consciously choose to be happy and make it happen for yourself, depend on no one else for this.

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Happy Cinco de Mayo!

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*an ultimate margarita*

Cheers to Cinco de Mayo!

Girlfriend Getaway

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The Hard Rock Cafe and Barnes & Noble share this building.

It was a rainy day, just like in this photo.

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I visited Baltimore's Inner Harbor with my two longtime friends today. We were celebrating my birthday together.

I chose to have lunch at the Hard Rock Cafe, which was fun. Even though it was no longer on the menu, the bar was able to make me a margarita with blood orange syrup. It's my most favorite margarita, so delicious, so smooth! I thoroughly enjoyed it. After that, we browsed the Barnes & Noble next door. Both establishments are located in a huge historic building, the Power Plant.

I also chose to hit Harborplace which is a multi-building complex of eateries, shops, and entertainment venues, lining the harbor of course and right next to the old Power Plant. I splurged at a shop called Fire & Ice, which sells unique jewelry. I had admired the same dark pink ruby pieces of jewelry in multiple locations. I first spotted them in their Philadelphia store last August and then again in the DC location last month. I finally made the purchase today! I selected a necklace and a matching pair of stud earrings in this stunning color, my favorite color. They are round cut stones set in silver. Bold yet simple. Shopping with girlfriends was fun too. Plenty of girl talk. Some shop talk too, since one of them is in the same field as me.

The forecast said it would be cloudy but it unfortunately drizzled the whole time! I'm not a girl who enjoys the rain, so I just neglected to take pictures, sorry! And it was too cold for a skirt... It's been a rainy spring, with no end in sight! Plus, the temperatures are all over the place. And with this crazy weather, you never know if 70 degrees is going to feel cool or warm. As always, layers are key for travel! I was happy to have had a little lightweight umbrella today too.

Tomorrow's Trip: Charm City

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I am excited to visit Baltimore, Charm City, tomorrow with two of my girlfriends!

the Inner Harbor

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Harborplace

site of dining, shopping and entertainment

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More details soon! ...plus personal photos.

Even though I've lived in a suburb of Baltimore most of my life, I just don't know the city well. It'll be nice to concentrate on and conquer a small area, simply enjoy it, without running around ragged. It will probably make me wanna return! The weather will be cloudy but then a nice 70 degrees. I love to travel in the springtime.

Saturday on Style: Princess Catherine's Dresses

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As you know I adore Princess Catherine and her sense of style. I got up at 5:15 Friday to watch as much of the royal wedding as I could before having to leave for work. I was waiting to see her wedding gown!

the Prince and Princess

so happy

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I can't imagine a more perfect choice! It was appropriate, flattering, classic, modern, timeless, and stunningly beautiful! Just perfect!

And I just saw the second dress today.

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Even though I'm not a fan of two wedding dresses, I think this one was needed. It's very lovely too!

I love her style.

favorite flower: dark pink azaleas

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These are in front of the house I grew up in.

They usually bloom for me around my birthday, but, alas, this year they're alittle late.

I still don't think I captured their vibrant, deep pink color in these pictures... Oh well...

More Italy Trip Photos

2011-04-26T22:21:00.002-04:00

My travel partner in Italy, J, has finally returned from backpacking across Europe. He kindly sent me his pictures from our time together. Thank you J! Here are the anonymous ones...

I'm well into a scrapbook of sorts for all the prints, postcards and ticket stubs; more details to come.

Verona

the view out our hotel room window in Verona

the view if you leaned out the window and looked left, towards Piazza Erbe

the Arena, a Roman ruin still used today; used to be 50% taller with these arches

workers were building a stage inside the Arena

view of Piazza Bra from the top of the Arena

Venice

nocturnal view of the Grand Canal from the Rialto Bridge

Venice is known for masterful Carnival masks and Murano glass

lunch in the piazza

pizza margherita, so good! I forgot to take a picture before I started eating!

Piazza San Marco with St. Mark's Basilica and Bell Tower

detail of the Campanile

St. Mark's

Doge's Palace

detail of sculptural decoration on St. Mark's

astrological signs on this public calendar in Piazza San Marco

my dinner, (very much like) filet mignon with various vegetables

fancy hot chocolate at Caffe Florian on St. Mark's Square

the Rialto bridge from the vaporetto (waterbus)

on the waterbus to the train station to depart, the sun finally came out!

Ca' d'Oro, I love it for the quatrefoils!

a gondola

Want more? Check out my personal pictures from this older post.

blissfully happy birthday weekend

2011-04-19T20:15:00.001-04:00

I headed to Philadelphia on the morning of my birthday, Friday, April 15th via train. I love departing for a trip or waking up on my birthday someplace else! I drop my (cute new $20 Target) tote bag off at L's, my friend who is also celebrating her birthday. I knew her through an Art History program. I walk in and see balloons, a 2 and 7 candle each topping a chocolate mocha chip muffin and individually wrapped bottles of nail polish. Her mom calls us with our horoscope which says we will soon have many opportunities.

Since L had to study (on her birthday, I know!), I met my old neighbor M, a loving, vivacious and social Lebanese senior citizen, at the Starbucks she named in the neighborhood called Center City. Waiting for her, I sat at the window and people-watched. Because there's such a variety of people, it was interesting. I found myself envious, I wanted to walk down the block as a local too.

After quickly catching up, we head to my favorite place, the Reading Terminal Market. The place was packed! Each stand had a long line ...and rightfully so! I savor my sinful cheesesteak from my cheesesteak place, Tommy DiNic's. And then on top, I pick up a slice of chocolate cake with chocolate frosting from an Amish vendor and take it to go.

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We walk to a bookstore where I have L's gift, a beautiful and highly-rated Greek Islands cookbook, on hold. She loves Greece the way I love Italy. The Barnes & Noble is right across the street from lovely Rittenhouse Square. M and I enjoyed a few bites of that decadent cake. M knew a musician who played his guitar and got to know the stranger sitting next to us on a park bench.

I left the two of them to meet L at the Philadelphia Museum of Art to see a couple of dowry chests from Renaissance Tuscany. They were interesting; one of the two was connected to the famous Medici family. We also bummed around the museum, which was fun with L. We really had fun with the art, especially the contemporary art. She also loved the cookbook, not owning anything like it.

view from the top of the steps in front of the Philadelphia Museum of Art

looking down Benjamin Franklin Parkway towards City Hall

The two of us went out to dinner at Parc, a fancy French restaurant. That was packed too! It had a lovely atmosphere. In fact, I can hardly wait to go to France! I ordered the French classic beef bourguignon which was delicious. It was four pieces of meat soaked in a red wine sauce on top of mashed potatoes with turnips and carrots. L and I split a side of sauteed spinach. The house merlot was also delicious, and affordable by carafe. I had profiterole as a dessert, which is puff pastry, vanilla ice cream and hot chocolate sauce. My dinner date ordered madeleines which was served with ice cream and caramel sauce.

Parc

beef bourguignon

profiterole

madeleines

we totally brought in the candles

L also ordered absinthe. It was clear and served with ice in this large glass canister on a pedestal with two silver spouts. One balances a sugar cube on a slotted spoon over their glass and then shoots the liquor over the cube, melting it. To her, it tasted like (Greek) ouzo and to me, it tasted like (Italian) weak white sambuca. It had a bit of a licorice taste, probably star anise. M met us there for a glass of wine.

absinthe

The three of us walked over to the bar Noche. It was a long, narrow room lined with windows on the second floor. We met a big group of L's friends there. After some socializing and drinking, we got up to dance and danced the night away. M danced with us most of the night! She was the one who got people to dance! You should have seen her! In her chocolate brown outfit and green hat, not aware she was not in her 20s. She was a big hit! I have no idea what time I left. After too many drinks (for a lightweight like me), I suppose I didn't care.

I caught a train back home the next morning with an Au Bon Pain cappuccino in hand. I didn't do very much the next afternoon as I did not feel so well after all those aforementioned drinks. By evening, it was really raining and windy. Oh well.... you know what they say, April showers bring May flowers... I saw that my hair, which I always straighten, dried into curls at the end of the evening.

My college friends J and B, B's husband N, and I went out to dinner at a nice Italian restaurant on Main Street in Annapolis. B and N gave me a bottle of the wine I drank during my study abroad experience, Montepulciano d'Abruzzo! Isn't that thoughtful? They also tied a luggage tag to the gift bag and picked out a Hallmark card. Having worked there twice, I'm a huge Hallmark snob! Anyway, it was awesome to hang out with my college friends, who are my most like-minded group of friends. And since I had such a great time in college, they are sacred to me. We ordered bruschetta for the table and then I had pasta bolognese in a cream sauce. After that, we hit a charming Irish pub for a beer.

Piccola Roma

our view of Main Street

Galway Bay Irish Pub

The next morning, I drove to Annapolis myself to buy proscuitto, mozzarella and a bottle of the wine I had on my most recent trip to Italy in Verona, Valpolicella Superiore, at the Italian Market. The Italian manager who showed me the wine I was searching for, who kept checking on me and tried to add on to my purchase told me "Some wine, some cheese, some proscuitto, that's all you need for a good time!!" Very Italian. I love it.

That afternoon my family and I created an Italian feast! My dad made meat lasagna which was truly amazing! I made a huge quantity of my vegetarian pasta specialty, which reminds me of my favorite meal on my last trip, the lunch on Piazza Erbe in Verona. My dish was penne mezze noodles, a red pepper, an orange pepper, a yellow pepper, a green pepper, cherry tomatoes and asparagus all perfectly, barely coated in a tomato sauce. I also prepared a not-so-huge portion of sauteed spinach. The leaves really do shrink down! I love having proscuitto as antipasti, which is a rare treat for me. I think everyone really loved the food, having something different and a bit of a cultural experience. I elaborated about my trip to Italy as my grandparents hadn't seen me since before I left.

Penne Primavera

My mom ordered me a birthday cake- a round devil's food cake with white buttercream frosting and pink roses! I very much love cake. I put it on top of my new clear glass cake stand I ordered online and that arrived just in time. My birthday shoes, those deep red peeptoe pumps still haven't arrived! ...oh well... My sister, who also loves to bake, baked me chocolate chip cookies from scratch, which were also put on the table. She usually doesn't bake that kind, my favorite kind of cookie. Unfortunately she couldn't attend the dinner as she works two jobs ...and at a couple locations at each job!

birthday cake!

My two old high school friends unfortunately couldn't make it to my dinner on Saturday night, but wanted to make it up to me, so I think we've decided to mark my birthday by grabbing a burger and toasting margaritas at the Hard Rock Cafe in Baltimore. And we'll wander around the Inner Harbor. They have a dining and shopping complex called Harborplace. It would be nice to indulge in a springtime shopping spree. Maybe Sunday, May 1st? We could take the convenient light rail there and back. It'll be fun!

...it was such a fabulous birthday weekend... I'm unsure if I could have asked for more!

:) personal happiness :)

2011-04-18T20:05:00.003-04:00

LOVE sculpture in my beloved Philadelphia

I have girlfriends who are completely boy-crazy, and in their mid-twenties, obsess about marriage everyday. Often they only feel happy when they are in a relationship, sometimes settling for someone not-so-perfect just to have it. I just think that when you are truly happy alone, only then will you attract who you want! Confidence is the sexiest thing ever! Be passionate. And then you're only more fascinating to the significant other when he or she comes along! Plus, whatever you do or do not have, life's way too short not to choose to be happy everyday! Be concerned with your own personal happiness.

I am very independent-minded and have always been rather content spending most of my life as a single girl. ...knowing that this wasn't permanent though! I do very much love love and truly want a relationship with the right guy. I hope that future relationships of mine consist of two complete individuals. I do not feel incomplete without the guy. I'm not gonna let being alone be severe daily stress. Stress seriously stops brain function and ages you! Not very attractive! Alittle stress and acting a teeny bit crazy is part of falling for someone though, that's okay! At least I pray it is for an analytical dorky gal like me!

I just came across this entry on the blog entitled "la mia vita" which in Italian is "my life." She is so much more poetic about the subject than me! Definitely check it out:

Life is too beautiful and too short

On the note of personal happiness, I promise I will update all about my blissfully happy birthday weekend soon!

I get to because it's (nearly) my birthday.

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What would I want if I could have anything for my birthday?

(any material possession for that matter)

Hillsdale Furniture Milano Bed in Queen

I've wanted a more simple metal bed for awhile!

And this particular one's been on my Amazon Wish List for a couple of years.

It would go with the hardware of my other furniture.

I won't be making the purchase at my birthday but maybe during my 27th year?

Of course I feel incrediblyincredibly lucky

to have gone to Italy just weeks ago,

showed J around there,

spend my birthday in Philadelphia,

and be surrounded by friends and family over the course of three lovely dinners.

...a girl can dream though...

...about these too!

Red Roses and White Freesias

birthday shoes

2011-04-07T00:00:00.002-04:00

Jessica Simpson Shoes, Kendale Pumps

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Available at Macy's and Nordstrom's

*to be my birthday shoes*

topped with a gift bow, perfect for a birthday, right?!

you know I love the deep red!

I tried my size in black and they fit ...and look hot! Just gotta hunt them down by my birthday... As they don't seem to be available in any stores nearby, I'll probably buy them online at Nordstrom's. Hopefully Friday when I truly have the $$$. Hopefully I'll have them in time!

birthday plans

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When I visit Philadelphia to meet up with my friend L so we can celebrate our April 15th birthdays and 27th years, we will go out to dinner. We love trying out different cuisines. Since she chose sushi last year and it wasn't my favorite try, it's my choice this year. ...and I've picked Parc and its fancy French fare. This French brasserie sits on lovely Rittenhouse Square.

Parc Brasserie: Restaurant, Bistro & Cafe

This is actually my second time dining at a French Restaurant. I helped my friend J celebrate her graduate program graduation with her family at one in Maryland a few years ago. I believe I ordered chicken, with maybe a mustard sauce? I know I have many Francophiles in my audience. What should I have this time around, you guys? I was thinking something classicly French like Coq Au Vin or Beef Bourguignon...

I hope we have a big crowd! The more, the merrier! I still know a couple more people in Philly, as well as having new friends in New Jersey. L and I want to go for drinks afterwards, probably at nearby NoChe, which more than being a bar, serves "gourmet pizzas and pub fare." The ambience of this second story place seems cool.

The next night I'll have returned home and will be going out with friends to the Italian restaurant Piccola Roma in historic Annapolis. I hope to collect a big group of friends at a charming bar called Galway Bay Irish Pub and then walk down the street to the restaurant. I can't wait to spend time with these fantastic friends of mine, many of whom I don't happen to hang out with too often. A mix of high school, college and since school friends, they haven't all met one another.

The following afternoon/ evening I will be helping to prepare my "Italian Feast" shared with my immediate family members and maternal grandparents. It will be adapted to my family's American tastes. I'm going to shop at The Italian Market for wine, proscuitto, an Italian cheese, bread, maybe olive oil for dipping bread, maybe more! The menu below is fairly simple for my family of big-eaters!

The menu will be:

Antipasti:

-garden salad

-good Italian bread with olive oil

-an Italian cheese like mozzarella or something

-sharp cheddar cheese

-proscuitto

Main Course or Primo Piatto:

-my specialty: penne pasta and tomato basil sauce with red pepper, yellow pepper and asparagus

-meat lasagna

Side or Contorno:

-sauteed spinach

Dessert or Dolce:

-devil's food cake with buttercream frosting and dark pink roses

(I know... not very Italian, but very Michelle. I'm looking forward to my cake!)

Wine or Vino:

-plenty! especially red!

A perfectly cultural birthday with friends and family! Plus a trip thrown in. I love it!

One to dress up for dinner, I gotta figure out what to wear those three times!

Tuesday on Travel: DC's Cherry Blossom Festival

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My friend E and I attended the Cherry Blossom Festival Sunday as a birthday gift to each other. Her birthday is mid-February and mine's mid-April so it's nice that this festival we love falls in between.

Cherry Blossoms Up Close

Cherry Blossoms and the Jefferson Memorial across the Tidal Basin

She picked me up and drove us to a Metro station and then we took a couple different lines of subway to get to Union Station's Au Bon Pain for delicious coffee and pastry. Once caffeinated, we hit the Freer Gallery for some Asian Art. We liked the more detailed Japanese scroll paintings best.

After that, we visited the Venice: Canaletto and His Rivals exhibition at the National Gallery. It was a collection of vedute, which were painted views of my Venice. These were the ultimate souvenirs during the time of the Grand Tour; think 1700s or so... I now love Canaletto! Especially his sharper mature style. I loved telling E where everything was. Some of the artists adored depicting Ascension Day, which is about 40 days after Easter. Venice is symbolically married to the sea on this religious day. The ruler of Venice, the Doge, dropped a ring into the sea from a huge golden boat called a bucintoro back in the 18th Century. There's also a gondola in front of the East Building exhibition space. As for the rest of the museum, we pretty much made a bee line for Ginevra de' Benci, the only portrait of Leonardo's in the Americas, who also graces the cover of the museum map.

After hanging out with Ginevra, we went out to lunch. We decided on the brewery on top of the Postal Museum, next to Union Station. My burger and fries with a beer was so perfect.

Finally we joined the crowds at the Cherry Blossoms which are stunningly beautiful. It was a nice walk... We walked further for a non-blocked-off subway station. Not very hungry, we had a big, warm chocolate chip cookie each for dessert and then left DC. With an early start and a late finish, it was a 13 hour day! E is a great travel partner though. She was listing the plethora of places in DC we have yet to see, already planning our next trip to the nation's capital. When it's warmer as we didn't expect the wind this time!

Cherry Trees and Crowds

a good week in friendship!

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Gossip Girl

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I received a text out of the blue from a former associate of mine on Monday and met him for dinner on Tuesday. He didn't know I wasn't at the workplace we had in common anymore, so we had a lot to catch up on. (At a local place we love! Yay for Half Price Dinner Pasta Tuesday! I <3 their "Voodoo Pasta.")

On Wednesday night I called an old college friend who I only speak with every few months and we gabbed for something like two hours, which was really fun. I would love to visit her in New England or meet up with her in New York...

I just hung up with another college friend who's also a local friend I unfortunately hardly ever hang out with... I'm determined for that to change! She could only afford 15 minutes, but it was still great to catch up a bit.

I also confirmed a friend request from yet another old college friend on facebook and sent him a message.

And of course I've been in contact with other friends lately in making travel itineraries and birthday plans. ...and will only to continue to do so. Must call my old Philly neighbors.

So, my advice (I know, the second advice post in a row!) is to just pick up the phone and call or text to connect with someone you've been meaning to!

Just Go!

2011-03-31T21:06:00.002-04:00

I am happy making lots of travel plans over the next few weeks.

This Sunday, my friend E and I will be in DC for the Cherry Blossom Festival! I love DC at its most beautiful, with the trees in bloom. [Pictures to come!] There's an outdoor Japanese cultural event and a Japanese art exhibition at the Freer we'd like to hit. Plus possibly an exhibition of works of art depicting my Venice at the National Gallery. I think it's an unspoken rule that we hit the Au Bon Pain in Union Station for breakfast. And we'll probably eat out for lunch. Any suggestions? I think that'll be a pretty full day... A sunny day too, following a week of gray skies and rain.

I get to depart for my beloved Philadelphia on my birthday! I just booked Amtrak tickets (a luxury yes, but driving on my birthday? No.) departing the morning of April 15th and returning the morning of April 16th. My friend L and I share the same birthdate, so we'll celebrate together and with whoever else we can get! L and I enjoy the ethnic dinner. Maybe French this year?

i LOVE philadelphia!

And that Saturday evening, I go out to drinks and dinner with friends in downtown Annapolis. My college roommate and her husband are driving three hours to help me celebrate! I think it may be a very full table, we'll see... I can hardly wait!

On Sunday, I'll share an Italian feast with family-- my immediate family of five and my maternal grandparents. Lasagna bolognese and my specialty-- penne with lots of vegetables. Like a true Italian, I'll be sure to share about everything that was served. Maybe I'll hit the Italian Market in Annapolis for wine and food... like prosciutto crudo! Maybe bread and olive oil too! Mmm...

Before my trip to Italy, I had been pretty boring. I wasn't going on trips like the ones mentioned above because I was saving for Italy, which was so beyond worth it! I also truly enjoy going out to dinner. Before I bought the airfare in October, I would dine in restaurants once or twice a week. The six months I was on a budget, however, I think I ate out once a month, ...that I paid for anyway. I found that I enjoyed it more because it was an occasional treat. Plus I truly splurged, I would go all out on two or three courses and a drink, spending $35. Back when I was eating out multiple times a week, I would choose the cheapest thing on the menu if I were also ordering an adult beverage and spend $20. If I only spent $20 a week for a month, that's $80 and much more expensive than my once-a-month satisfying splurge. ...and I was going out more than 4 times a month! I also didn't go out so much those six months. I would often find myself sitting at home on a Friday night, giving myself a pedicure in front of an episode of What Not To Wear. Again, worth it... Do you think I'd remember sitting in the bar at Friday's as fondly as I would my short, sweet little trip to Italy? I think not. Plus it was only five and a half months. I still had a good time over those winter months. I walk with a friend once a week and don't spend a dime doing that! I've even done girls nights on the cheap. And Miss Independent over here even let the guy pay for the date sometimes!

Going back to Italy was important to me. Who am I kidding?! I hadn't been in four years and had to have it! Talking about travel all day at my old job, talking about other people's trips, it was time for me to have an exciting international excursion of my own. And since finances were my main obstacle with a really low paying job, I made sacrifices to make it happen. I stopped going out all the time. In addition, I designed the trip itself to be budgeted. (J did immensely help me out and add to my trip by paying for so many things.) There are so many people out there who dream of places and never go. I just hope I can help someone out there with my story so they are inspired to make it happen for themselves. Trust me, it's so worth it!

italiagal

Style Sunday: Royal Style

Style Sunday: Spring Style

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Style Sunday: Recent Purchases for the Home

Italian Sunday Dinner Party Preparation

Style Sunday: My Style Statement

Style Sunday: Wish List

Buon Appetito!

Style Sunday: Warm White for Winter

*happy planning*

Style Sunday: Chic Clutch

Reflections on 2011 and Resolutions for 2012

Eat, Drink and Be Merry Holiday Party

Ramblings from Michelle's Day Off

*Season's Greetings*

Panettone

Small Business Saturday!

Thanksgiving Wishes and Personal Black Friday Boycott

Poverty and Spending Habits

Weekend Activities

Vacation Days 3, 4, and 5

Vacation Day Number 2

*Vacation Days*

Very Merry

Travel Tuesday: Wandering around Philadelphia

My Apartment Home

Daydream Believer

Goals Before 30

*blog blooming*

Life As I Now Know It

Guest Post Continued: Betsy's Trip to California Part 2

Guest Post: Betsy's Trip to California

Travel Tips

...waiting...

Free Hugs in Italy

Blog Birthday

Botched Yet Better

Book Review: The Gospel According to Coco Chanel

The Capitoline Venus

~~~for my apartment~~~

Happy Thoughts for "The Happiness Project"

Girly Getaway in New Haven Highlights

I like to travel light.

The Countdown

Attend Artscape!

Happy Dance and Other Random Things

The Countdown

Necessities for My Next Apartment

*My Future Apartment*

dream apartment update

Italian Experiences and Recent Thoughts

My Future Apartment?

New Year's Resolutions Update

summer-ready

the search is on

fresh flowers, the giveaway winner, and yet another trip!

*my beautiful BlackBerry*

100th Post!

Recent Quatrefoil Purchases

*time to celebrate*

New York City Trip

What I Love From The Book "Bonjour, Happiness!"

fresh flowers

three terrific things

behind in the times

In Memory of Ann

Michelle's 27 Things I Know For Sure

Happy Cinco de Mayo!

Girlfriend Getaway

Tomorrow's Trip: Charm City

Saturday on Style: Princess Catherine's Dresses

favorite flower: dark pink azaleas

More Italy Trip Photos

blissfully happy birthday weekend

:) personal happiness :)

I get to because it's (nearly) my birthday.

***birthday shoes***

***birthday plans***

Tuesday on Travel: DC's Cherry Blossom Festival

happy planning

Season's Greetings

Vacation Days

blog blooming

~for my apartment~

My Future Apartment

my beautiful BlackBerry

time to celebrate

birthday shoes

birthday plans